Was Mulan the first instance?
The story of Mulan seems to take place during the Wei dynasty, and was probably written during it as well. So that would place it between the late 300ās and early 500ās CE.
I immediately thought of Samson from the old Testament. Itās estimated that story takes place around 1,000 BCE. Not sure if anyone knows of anything older.
Speaking as a man with no hair now ā itās very freeing. It is physically cool, it is less bullshit to deal with. No waking up & being like, ooo, gotta work with my fucking hair. Others are saying itās autonomy & control, probably not wrong, but itās also just plain smart. Practical.
Also a defensive strategy. If the hair is kept short, people canāt grab you by the hair & force your head around. Yank your head back & slit your throat.
Name the phenomenonā¦ No hair donāt care. ĀÆ\_(ć)_/ĀÆ
Iām a dude who grew his hair out because itās less work to deal with. Just pull it back and Iām good to go. When itās short my hair is totally unruly.
Though when it starts thinning too much Iām going full Kratos.
Okay there you go, if it looks good by all means keep it going. Even if it looks bad, itās your life, not mineā¦
Word to the wise, my male friends with ponytails have reported (same as women) donāt make that damn ponytail too tight!! Headaches. And it will strain your hair, cause excess thinning, damage. Again, so they say, no personal experience. Oh & if/when you embrace bald: handheld skull shavers are simply amazing. Itās great to have one around!
it happens in movies because it happens in real life too. when in crisis, often there is sense of loss of control or autonomy. for most, something that can provide an outlet for such a frustration is oneās appearance. and, while men do too, women broadly tend to have the more intimate relationship with their hair. so: haircut (or hair dye, or both).
Can confirm the guy side of this. Have shaved my head in moments of crisis. Not something I consciously considered before doing it. Just feltā¦ Idk, claustrophobic and needed to do something.
Also, when my mom was in the hospital last year, had I been able to get in with one, I wouldāve had a tattoo by the time she got out.
Iāve done it before too, lowest point in my life, just grabbed some scissors and cut down my long hair :(
A little upsetting to see people calling it a trope, when it is a real reaction to trauma :/
Tropes can absolutely be based in reality. A trope is simply a commonly used stylistic device or convention in media. Sometimes itās commonly used because reality just works that way. There nothing inherently cheap about it.
Cutting the hair short as a trope tells us that the character is in an extremely stressful or even traumatic situation and is trying to regain a sense of control. Thatās a complex situation but can be told in seconds by relating to actual reality.
Itās not a trope in reality but it is one when used to convey a characters emotional state in a story.
I have full sleeve tattoos that started as piecemeal trauma tattoos. I get it.
Iām still highly considering a tattoo, but now in a much more stable place, so my needle phobia is helping keep my canvas blank lol
Also guy here, did this as well.
But uh, mainly because I literally cannot get to a haircut place. Been functionally hobbled for 6 months, car got stolen, donāt know anybody nearby with a car, no public transit, lyft or uber + a hair cut each month is actually pretty pricey when you are living on disability, waiting for public housing.
Been ordering delivery groceries for a while now, added a buzz trimmer to it this month.
At the rate my hair grows, itāll be back to roughly the length I usually keep it at by the time my PT regimen gets me back into ānormalā shape (probably another 6 months).
So sure, I am in what most people would probably consider a crisis, but it makes practical sense too.
Either way, cutting your hair hair is literally a more healthy way to directly exert what little amount of control you have over yourselfā¦ but it is, at least in my experience, far more socially ostracizing than cutting yourself.
Not counting me cutting my own hair, I have know several people in my life who have done both or either of these.
When people cut themselves and this is noticable, people who care at all will be concerned and try to talk to them, suggest therapy. They receive more care and attention.
When someone takes all their hair off? Theyāll be treated as if they are completely insane, should be avoided and are suspect, and/or are dangerous and should be institutionalized.
Hitting the nail on the head in that last paragraph.
Also, Iām sorry. Thatās a shitty situation. Itās wildly unl unlikely, but if you happen to be in east TN, I have a car and donāt mind taxi-ing a Lemming in need
Also hair is uncontrollable and gets everywhere if you let it. If you are already stressed, then you can literally get annoyed by your hair existing on your head doing its thing.
Short or no hair means better ventilation, which speeds up neuron activation.
Iāve grown my my hair out and chopped it off several times. Maybe itās some woo-woo psychic antenna thing, or maybe itās the psychosomatic effect of the physical weight and inertia tugging on your scalp, but either way, each chop came with a feeling of emotional distance from the world. An almost immediate aloofness.
Chopensation.