Especially if you have kids and work all day

66 points

A good diet and making time for exercise are huge.

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The worst part is how starting these things makes everything worse for 2-4 weeks until you get used to it and then doesn’t really bring noticeable returns for another 2-4 weeks.

And the older you are before you start the longer it takes and harder it is to get going

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kiss carbs goodbye and you’ll have energy all day

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59 points

What I used to do was be younger. Worked really well for a long time.

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haha than I’m screwing something else up

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55 points

No kids

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Honestly I was already tired. This just makes me tired, plus more

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Sounds like health issues

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41 points

I use a CPAP every night. One of the best things I’ve ever done for myself!

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Same, it quite literally changed my life. I went from sleeping 12h in a row, still waking up groggy and generally being a walking zombie, to being functional after 7h of sleep. Young children still make it hard to get those 7h of consecutive sleep, but this gets better with time.

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Hell yeah I had a really poor memory and was always exhausted. I had to nap every day. Now with the CPAP I get 8 hours of sleep and I can remember things that happened weeks ago

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Do you remember what your AHI (Apnea-Hypopnea Index, number of “events” oper hour) was? Normal is 5 or less, severe sleep apnea is 30 or more - I was at 69 events an hour. Considering an event is either 10 seconds or more without breathing (or a more or less equivalent drop in blood oxygenation due to partial respiratory tract blockage), it means I wasn’t breathing for at least an hour and half every night 😂

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sleeping 12h in a row

Ya this will make anyone groggy. There’s your problem.

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The point was that I woke up groggy and tired regardless of how much I slept. That was a symptom, not my problem.

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The CPAP was great, but my previous terrible sleeping habits masked a few other issues, it was a series of things to resolve. (Sleep got better, but I stopped tossing and turning, making back issues worse, so I needed to stop sleeping how I was, etc.)

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7 points

similarly: I bought anti-snore bite guard to help with sleep apnea.

Feeling actually refreshed after waking up feels unreal

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4 points

How did you get used to the mask?

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Three things:

  1. Don’t stop until you find the right mask. There are a lot of options.
  2. Change is always awkward at first. It will take time to get used to.
  3. Adjust your attitude. Most people are already convinced that they’re not going to like a CPAP and are angry they have to wear one. Make the effort to be healthy. Eating healthy and getting exercise aren’t fun for most people either. Getting quality sleep is just as important.
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He’s been really determined to make it work - even takes it on vacation. He gets decent rest until he wakes up and takes it off, usually around 3 or 4. He has the triangle-shaped mask with the face steps. I didn’t realize there were different types. I just ordered him the n30 under-nose one and the p10 nasal pillows with a soft strap. Thanks for the advice!

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Three weeks of agony. Totally worth it. I have a deviated septum so I can’t do a nose pillow, but there’s really low impact options if you’re able.

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My husband has had his since September. He usually makes it until 3 or 4am and then takes it off.

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I would put it on when I was reading in bed before I go to sleep and that seemed to help. It still took about 6 months to get use to it. Often times for the first 6 months I just wore it as much as I could and tried not to stress if I needed to take it off to sleep.

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Yup! CPAP. Fix your sleep and you’ll feel awake during the day.

I don’t feel sleepy in the afternoon anymore. I sleep and night and stay awake during the day.

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Exact same story here. I had lost evenings before I got mine, now I can enjoy a couple hours to myself after the kids are down.

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33 points

I get adequate sleep. A society that doesn’t let you is a society that is trying too hard.

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I wish! But how can you sleep when there’s so much you can do!

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So much time for activities!

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I can’t imagine not prioritizing sleep over those things.

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2 points

I’ve always had insomnia but the child in my life really screws up my ability to get sleep

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Oops thought you were referring to your inner child who didn’t want to get to sleep.

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