Do you love your body shape? Have a personality trait you really like? Fantastic skill you’ve developed? We’d have no problem praising a friend for these things, and we deserve that kindness ourselves. Share your self kindness below!

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I love that I’m different! I’m quirky, it’s not everyone’s cup of tea and some people attack me for it but I love it. My mannerisms, style, humour are all a bit different. Diamonds are different and they’re worth a packet, so me being different is great!

I’m compassionate towards other people, I’m always trying to help others but do it covertly to protect their confidentiality. I keep secrets, I don’t gossip, I respect people’s confidentiality and I’m trustworthy.

I love my eyes! I’ve got proper disney princess eyes with massive lash eyes. They’re really pretty and I love them.

I’ve done everything I’ve done over the past 10 years alone. I don’t have family, I’m single but I’ve done it. I bought a house, sold the house and bought another in that time which was stressful and awful but I did it.

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Very impressive. I hope you’ve at least got a support system among friends.

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I do! I’m also good at finding professional support, so I always go through a mortgage broker cos I just don’t understand mortgages and have nobody to explain it to me

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  • I love my skin and my eyes. I get complimented on both often and those are my favourite things too! 😃

  • I love the skills that I’ve developed despite the hurdles. My IT class was full of guys, me being the sole exception, but that didn’t stop me from creating these little games while I was at home and showing them to my IT teacher. He was so impressed by them that he suggested I go into the gaming industry!

  • Personality trait wise, I’d say it’s my uncanny ability to be dead set on achieving a goal I have in mind, even if it takes me forever to do LMAO

  • I’ve saved three people’s lives before and I always try to help other people, especially if they’re hurting mentally

  • I have a lot of ambition, there’s always something I’m looking forward to, no matter how distant it is!

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These are brilliant points and I love the range. IT skills are a mystery to me so I really admire them. What’s something you’re aiming for in life atm?

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Travelling the world! I still need to get my passport and I haven’t flown in a long time, but I’ve got so many countries listed, all on different continents! I’ve been thinking about creating a side blog on Tumblr where I document my travels with photographs, a part of me really wants to do that because I also like photography but the other part of me enjoys some privacy LMAO

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That sounds great! What’s the main country you want to go to?,

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Physically: I like my feet 😂 They don’t seem to age and don’t fluctuate with my weight. And they get me in lots of places!

Personality trait: I like to learn new things. I hope I get to have this until I die.

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Haha good point on feet! What’s something interesting you’ve learned recently?

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Recently I’ve been dabbing into visible mending and Sashiko(Japanese visible mending).

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Is that where you mend it with gold or something to make it even more lovely? I’ve always really liked that idea.

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My organizational abilities and my general intellect. I’m proud of this because I was homeschooled (given textbooks and left to my own devices) so I was able to thrive in spite of this.

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You’ve achieved really well given a difficult start Maddie well done. What age were you home schooled to?

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3 points

1st-12th grade

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That’s a long time, you really have my respect

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Started doing karaoke again, and it’s been so fun and energizing. I sang Alanis Morisette’s You Oughta Know and totally slayed.

I have nicely shaped legs and a good sense of style.

I’ve been trying hard to curate the “be curious, not judgemental” philosophy from Ted Lasso. I’m not the best at it, but the fact that I actively try to be kinder to others puts me ahead of the curve.

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Absolutely, actively trying is the first step and wanting to do it shows you have a good heart. Being judgemental is part of being human and it’s difficult to do that whilst always protecting yourself.

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