Summary

In response to Donald Trump’s re-election, some same-sex couples, like Ben Nelson and Adam Weinberger, are accelerating plans to marry, fearing potential rollbacks of LGBTQ rights.

Concerns stem from the Supreme Court’s 2022 overturning of Roe v. Wade and past statements from conservative justices suggesting interest in revisiting the 2015 Obergefell v. Hodges ruling that legalized same-sex marriage.

While the Respect for Marriage Act offers federal safeguards, uncertainty persists.

LGBTQ-friendly businesses are stepping up to support couples, but fears of broader restrictions, including on parenting options, remain widespread among the community.

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My husband and I did this after the Dobbs decision came down and cited ‘future reconsiderations’ for Casey and Obergefell. Called a handful of friends and family and told them to meet us at the courthouse in two weeks.

Now, we are bracing to help people who may have to travel to our blue state to get married, just like they had to 15-ish years ago. We may not be able to leave, but we have some means to help others, so we are doing what we can.

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16 points

My partner and I got our partnership right after the election on a lazy day

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I’m a registered minister in the church of the latter day dude based out of Oregon and am happy to marry lgbtq folks.

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Thank you! We are on the opposite coast, but we are working with ministers like yourself to make sure we have plenty of options for people to choose from. Best of luck over the next years, and here’s to many more happy weddings!

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2 points

I’d imagine any church of latter dude to be pretty chill

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3 points

We mostly just abide.

In all seriousness, I got it while I was stationed down in Georgia in the army. Your options to get married were to go in front of a judge (good luck with that), or pay a “minister” anywhere from 100-250 or whatever to ask you whether or not you knew each other, if you were in love, and whether or not you were getting married just for tax purposes.

I thought that was bullshit, so I registered with the church of the latter day dude and married people for the cost of a lunch or a six pack of decent beer.

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I wonder what the chances are that the coming administration invalidate such marriages, probably on some dumb Christian nationalist grounds

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62 points

Supreme Court has already signaled that gay marriage is on the chopping block.

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20 points

I wonder how this would work with their anti-trans initiatives. If a transwoman tried to marry her girlfriend, would it technically be legal under their backwards laws?

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37 points

Logically yes, but they are not bound by logic.

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No, they see us as criminals and will deny every right they can, marriage, public service, equal treatment under the law, medical insurance/medication, freedom of association, speech, and even our right to exist. The point is to criminalize and erase our existence from public life.

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2 points

Transwomen aren’t people, silly! /s

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11 points

Weren’t they against sharia law?

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23 points

Only if you call it that.

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Anything is possible, but it would be far more difficult to invalidate existing marriages than prevent new ones. Which is exactly why couples are rushing to get it done now.

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They are openly stating they will deport legal citizens… so, acting like their should be no concern might not be a great idea.

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18 points

It’s already happening in Italy, so there’s no reason to believe the GOP would hold back.

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7 points

Italy has never recognized same-sex marriage.

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Sorry, Captain Pedantic — they have same-sex unions (and recently banned travel for surrogacy specifically for gay couples)

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4 points

No one should bet against it.

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the Democrats defended Roe v. Wade so hard it fell so it is scary what four years of Republican rule will bring

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We don’t get much from the democrats. But at least we do get something. I’d really hate to be one of those people that spent the whole last year as “useful idiots” for foreign Nations and oligarchs. Screaming about how Democrats are just the same as Republicans and just genocidal murders.

I assume most didn’t want things to get worse. Didn’t want trump. This has to be like ashes on their tongue. I hope that they and the people they misinformed/demotivated. Will be ready to show solidarity if we’re ever given another chance at elections. And do what it takes to keep Republicans and their allies far away from any elected office for the rest of their lives.

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I hope that they and the people they misinformed/demotivated. Will be ready to show solidarity if we’re ever given another chance at elections.

Yes I hope all those center-right neolibs running the party realize the failure of their ways and join in solidarity with those of us on the left. I have my doubts though.

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tasted like ashes since the one and only time was allowed to cast a vote and Obama got it

both parties have utterly failed the US and it is past time to face the reality that both parties are bought and paid for

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49 points

Do these people not realize that the government can just invalidate their marriage and punish them?

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38 points

Breaking up marriages is recognized worldwide as an act of genocide, but putting restrictions on who can marry isn’t as universally recognized.

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The world hasn’t cared about genocides since 1945.

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The world has never cared about a genocide that happened within a nation’s borders.

Had Hitler not invaded other countries, there wouldn’t have been any consequences more severe than a public condemnation.

Hell, there would have provably been foreign support for genociding Romani people.

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Rwanda and further Yugoslavia are both exceptions to your statement

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Odd statement. The world has cared a lot more about genocide after 1945.

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They did it to my mom. She and her partner drove to San Francisco on that weekend when they were doing gay marriages in the mid 2000s. That ,marriage was canceled once they straightened iut the laws.

They’re legally wed right here in Arizona now, but I wouldn’t put it past these fucks to try to annul their marriage again.

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10 points

I’m sure Trump really cares about international law

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He doesn’t care about domestic law. I doubt he would care about laws he personally enacted if they stood in opposition to his in-the-moment wants.

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I’d personally be afraid I’d be putting myself on a termination list tbh, but others are probably braver than me.

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The Republican Party is turning into the Taliban of the United States. On the other hand, Americans knew that and knew what Trump is all about when they voted, and they walked right into this with eyes wide open, serving both Houses of Congress and the Presidency to that party. We deserve everything that’s coming to us.

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They aren’t turning into; they have always been. They have finally consolidated power. I don’t even live in the US and I am dreading the worldwide ramifications of your election. Where can I go to escape? The moon? Apparently not even that.

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there is US citizens not allowed to vote, and we did not choose this nor deserve it fuck that

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Unfortunately, it doesn’t seem like Americans are going to learn until it really, really hurts. I hope we get all the pain that comes from this straight on. No relief until we start voting differently.

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And at the same time Democrats are driving people right into their arms by refusing to address certain issues, and demonizing everyone, who isn’t on board with 100% of their agenda, as a racist, bigot, etc.

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Trump was great for the economy, people rushed to get married, buy hard drives, canned food, rice, life insurance policies, plan funerals, finish that bucket list…

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