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How is he supposed to get better if you don’t give feedback?

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Exactly. Leave a one star review for his address on Google Maps or something.

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I bet that used to be possible until they got a lot of complaints 😁

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I think nowadays they just use Facebook groups to shame men they don’t like. Are We Dating the Same Guy is the usual name for them.

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I feel like as.a.woman I.have to.point out that, many times, a woman orgasming or not is not.your fuck’s fault.

I would also.like to point out that it is harder to orgasm in “normal” sex than is it with oral, so.if your girl didn’t orgasm don’t take it personally, pull your pants up and go down on her

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There’s also women who can not orgasm by in-and-out movements (like: the act of fucking) and it just hurts them after a while. Had to find that out the hard way.

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I think people would be really surprised at the wide variety of shapes for women insides. Some shapes just don’t get rubbed the same way.

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Positions and angles of attack can matter. Something that feels good for one girl does nothing for or hurts another. And it’s not necessarily a matter of “I like this position” because it’s about how your two bodies interact. It’s very possible you both like different things. I had a girlfriend fairly early on where we pretty quickly realized I liked this and she liked that, and we’d take turns doing the other’s favorite. Dynamics of sexual relationships became a lot less adult after high school.

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233 points

I believe your comment is suffering from irregular periods.

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83 points

It might be low on iron, or overtraining

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Or they have the same issue as me, their phone keyboard randomly inserting periods all the time. I manually remove them most of the time, but when I’m agitated, I sometimes can’t be bothered.

This happens with several apps, e. g. https://www.reddit.com/r/Swiftkey/comments/wylng4/random_periods/

I didn’t particularly want to link to reddit, but I wasn’t able to quickly find e. g. an issue tracker.

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The phone adds it auto and I never had the patience to go change it lol. My family is also very annoyed by it

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Please think of your family haha: https://www.wikihow.com/Enable-the-Double-Tap-Period-Shortcut-on-an-iPhone Or https://www.techbone.net/android/user-manual/double-space-full-stop

If you use a different keyboard, then you’re on your own.

Or just don’t double tap space!

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I’m surprised this is news to people but I guess sex education varies between countries maybe.

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No sex education in Pakistan ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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Sex ed is often about how babby formed and less about erotic technique.

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Or, first ask for directions, go down and stay down, keep listening and doing exactly what she says, until she gets there first. THEN bring your dick to the party. For many of us the second and successive orgasms are much quicker and easier to achieve, even from penetrative sex.

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This is the way. First, second, third base and home.

Although doesn’t have to be every time. Can skip bases, go backwards, etc.

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Agree. Let me add that some women don’t orgasm at all or do orgasm and don’t like it - yes, the world is a diverse place.

Communication is key in any relationship.

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I understand you are a woman but you really need to get control of your periods here.

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Oh my god…

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Honestly, yeah! If it’s not going to happen, fine, that’s life sometimes. If I’m doing something that doesn’t work for you, or you want something different, how tf am I supposed to know that? I’m not psychic ffs. If you fake an orgasm, you get what you deserve.

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Lol, you sound really angry. If you want to get better at this, you should probably remove your ego from the equation here and look at it objectively.

I see a lot of anger from both genders these days on social media. Take a step back from all of that and date people who are not into all that shit. It will turn your brain into mush. :)

Social media is harmful for you. It’s become even worse than the news now, since it’s actively targeting you with algorithms, trying to get you to be upset so you click around. It’s going to serve you the worst of humanity fighting eachother.

Just touch grass.

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Psst… your projection is showing…

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More like your own, mate. :)

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Most men are a lot more receptive to input than many women give us credit for. For the mist part, men do not want to be known as a terrible lay. If your man doesn’t think he needs pointers, get someone else to treat you right.

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The problem is that the exceptions can actually be dangerous

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Wait, we’re supposed to be involving mist? Women just get more and more complicated…

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2 points

Some guys think of sex like a video game I’m sure XD

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I’m now picturing those 80s games where you had to hit the keys rapidly (and in the correct sequence) to make your character run, but with pelvic thrusts…

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Would be nicer to know so you can actually get better tbh

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