While I am leaning towards sex, any thing that you felt that spiced up your life works B-)
My midlife crisis at 25 was learning how to safely perform dangerous superhuman shit
Get a motorcycle. Ok, so if you don’t know how to ride, get a cheap second hand bike under 600cc and take the MSF Basic Rider course. Guaranteed to spice up your life, give you a desire to get out of the house, and you’ll meet many cool people.
Yep. I’m on a bike older than me, she’s light and dependable even in the Seattle rain. Street bike, but I still camp with it 👍
Be safe and don’t forget to get there, https://shouldispeed.com
I quit my steady job, broke up with my beloved gf of many years, moved back to my home country and am living with my dad.
Just started a new job. Spicy.
My family was a mess in my home country and my siblings were doing heavy lifting without me. Also, despite the strong love between us we had language issues and I was slowly retreating into my own head abroad.
(imagine: if every ounce of wit or humour you had, fell on deaf ears, or had to be explained, or said less elegantly. A piece of you dies every time.)
I think I would have resented her if we started a family, as I likely would have gone into full autopilot. I wish I was born there, or that she was born here. We really could have been happy if it weren’t for the communication barrier. She still means the world to me, and I just want her to be happy.
Sex on a schedule
Like Tuesday, Thursdays and Saturdays. For neurodivergent couples it’s amazing.
Psychedelics
