110 points

Itā€™s strange how us older ex-metalheads are the first different generation music wise

Our parents were horrified by our taste in music. Their parents were horrified by their taste in music, their parents were horrified by their taste in music

Weā€™re the first generation that listens to our kidsā€™ music and goes

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Itā€™s the same though isnā€™t it? While itā€™s not the reason why we liked the music we liked (more punk than metal for me but same difference) it was always a bonus if your parents didnā€™t like it. Thatā€™s exactly the reaction that kids are getting from their parents now!

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13 points

It is! But Iā€™m glad you understand what I meant!

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2 points

Oh I totally did

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9 points

Well there are two areas to explore here. The quality of the music and itā€™s message. And the parenting we endured. I became a metal head for both reasons. My parents music didnā€™t resonate with me. The over simplified music structure just bored me. There wasnā€™t anything epic about it. And then the message didnā€™t resonate when it was all happy rose gardens and unicorns. My dad was an abusive asshole. Metal gave me that angry outlet.

At least my mom understands where I come from even she doesnā€™t understand why I listen to what I listen to. She divorced him and shit changed. Now my son loves metal and his mom doesnā€™t get it.

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3 points

Yeah I hear you, those experiences would no doubt stear you to something that provided an outlet. But, and I want to acknowledge that Iā€™m not dismissing anything you endure, ultimately rebellion is what weā€™re talking about and the eventual outlet is almost irrelevant.

Iā€™m glad youā€™re able to share music you like with you son.

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13 points

My mom likes metal now šŸ¤·

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2 points

Same with mine. Sheā€™s the reason I love Rammstein. We share music with each other a lot, itā€™s awesome. My dads more old fashioned and likes classic rock but heā€™ll tolerate me and my brother playing our favourite metal songs for him at least!

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2 points

Yeah my father was not having in when I was a teen but thankfully they never tried to get me to listen to something else, it was fine as long as it was in my room lol.

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1 point

I got my mom who turns 70 this year into Dog Fashion Disco. She loves it.

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9 points

I wasnā€™t super into metal when I was a kid, I was more into funk and blues. But then my son decided to put on some garbage than he calls funk music. I was disgusted and promptly changed the song to sam and Dave.

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8 points

Thatā€™s a testament to the tolerance of millennials. We are more open minded and will at least listen to what our kids have to say.

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Iā€™m really into new metal bands though, because they are constantly releasing stuff. There are bands out there like Black Breath that will still melt your face off, but I really like the more experimental side of metal, with bands like Abstract Void, Unreqvited, and Botanist all pushing the envelope of what metal is.

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83 points

Five Finger Death Punch is as close as you can possibly get to pop music without leaving the genre of metal completely. I donā€™t judge people if itā€™s their jam, I just think they are extremely mediocre at best. Itā€™s no coincidence that the majority of their most popular songs are covers.

But hey, people like what they like.

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32 points

I just feel like their songs are specifically targeted to edgy 13 year olds. ā€œwrong side of heaven and righteous side of hellā€ I mean, cā€™mon.

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15 points

Its called suburbia and nothing ever happens

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8 points

I mean, cā€™mon.

Right or wrong? I can hardly tell.

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6 points

The maturity of a 13 years old, but itā€™s listened by angry genXers and older millenials.

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5 points

I donā€™t get this point of view, maybe I should because it sounds logical. But again sometimes I want to listen to harpsichords in E by Bach. And sometimes I want to listen to hallowed be thy name from iron maiden, sometimes I want to listen to a nightmare to remember by dream theater, and sometimes I want to listen to wrong side of heaven by ffdp.

Itā€™s like the same logic that I love eatimg healthy home made delicious filipino food every day of the week, by my excellent cook of a wife. And yet occasionally I get a craving for a menu at burger King with a monster energy drink.

It is as if there is redeemable factors in both

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Tbf, the metal bands you mentioned are all on the operatic side of metal, which is a nice subgenre. Many metal fans would say that there are definitive bands which categorize one subgen vs another. Iā€™ve never heard of Five Finger Death Punch, and thought the name was actually Five Flavored Fruit Punch. Maybe an opportunity for Weird Al here šŸ˜

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17 points

I tend to like pop metal the same way I like pop punk. Itā€™s not going to make me feel anything but itā€™s catchy. Itā€™s good for working out or working on the motorcycle and similar things where I want a driving background but donā€™t want to get way into it.

That being said, the kind of people who listen to FFDP put me off of their music. Itā€™s like thatā€™s the first metal they ever heard then decided to make it their whole personality.

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14 points

I agree they are mediocre (at best), but as for sounding poppy, youā€™re forgetting we have a whole metal subgenre called hair metal.

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3 points

Yeah but hair metal had raw sex appeal. Theyā€™d fuck your girl, and maybe you too, and you were ok with it. Sure itā€™s musically lighter, but they went hard. On the other hand, you assume 5FDP is on tour again because theyā€™re behind on child support payments.

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13 points

Ghost is in the same boat. Donā€™t get me wrong, they write some great songs, but they are perilously close to pop

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39 points

Iā€™ve seen Ghost described as ā€œSpooky ABBAā€ and somehow it kinda checks out. Not even mad, ABBA is great and so is Ghost

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11 points

ā€œBon Jovi for Goth Dadsā€ is the other one I enjoy. I love Ghost, Tobias writes exactly the music he wants. Not trying to be metal, he was heavily influenced by og heavy metal (Sabbath) and the theatrics of the glam/hair metal era (Kiss). Combine the two and ya, thatā€™s just Ghost.

Itā€™s very intentionally campy and fun, like year round Halloween.

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6 points

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To their defense, I think they are really self aware. The campiness and the theatrics are all intentional. It almost has a musical (the broadway kind) aspect to it. 5FDP actually believe they are hard.

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7 points

Well, thereā€™s also ā€œpunk goes popā€ stuff, like the good old https://youtube.com/watch?v=gbMbCbEp5cA

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4 points

A series I personally love listening to while working out. Especially the 80s pop covers.

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3 points

That is hilarious.

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3 points

I always come back to I Prevailā€™s cover of Blank Space. Sometimes it can even trick me into believing Tswift is a good song writer

Or Ice Nine Kills parodying both the song and the music video and managing to make it less creepy in the process

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2 points

Well, thereā€™s also ā€œpunk goes popā€ stuff

My favorite. Those lyrics were surprisingly unsettling.

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0 points

Sounds like metal gate keeping

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7 points

As opposed to wooden gate keeping

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39 points

Do you like Cradle of Filth?

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62 points

They changed my life

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2 points

Do you like Huey Lewis and the News?

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6 points

Donā€™t everyone have both nymphetamine fix and the power of love in the same Playlist?

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18 points

Honestly donā€™t understand the hate ffdp gets.

If someone could clue me in thatā€™d be nice cause like I genuinely like a lot of their original songs as well as the remakes.

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12 points

I like their stuff, but Iā€™ll admit that a ton of it sounds the same. On the other hand, people almost always complain when bands go ā€œexperimentalā€, so I consider it a somewhat good thing actually

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I have no clue about music in general, but ffdp are pretty basic when it comes to their song structure, a lot of simple and repetitive rhythms. Add to that that they sound recorded better than live (IMO) and theyā€™re American which can lead to prejudices in the metal community and the bands easy to joke about.

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they sound recorded better than live

Thatā€™s like 90% of all musicians though.

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1 point

Iā€™d disagreeā€¦ but opinionsā€¦

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6 points

Their music was pretty great back in the day, but their more recent stuff sounds like schizophrenic whinging, and their music videos make them look like maga fascists. I have done zero research on what their opinions actually are.

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4 points

I like their first couple albums and they write extremely catchy songs, but their lyrics feel just a little too douchey for my taste. Theyā€™re a fantastic cover band though.

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i think the reson behind that has little to do with the music. idk how it is now but a few years ago the band had baddd infighting and made it all public. i am talking up to the level of dissolving the band on stage, just to continue for the revenue the next day. I assume many of the ffdp haters were fans of the music back then, but got dissapointed by the musicans to the point they couldnt enjoy it anymore.

Remember if someone hates a thing, its likely they still care about it.

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2 points

They sound too much like divorced dad rock for my liking. But I listen to system of a down and disturbedā€¦so who am I to complain

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4 points

Holy shit, that shit fucking slaps!

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