Democratic vice presidential candidate Tim Walz embodies everything liberal women see in their own fathers – except for their political views. For some, it makes them hopeful but also very sad.

He’s got jokes, enthusiasm and a smiley face that’s not even remotely trying to hide how he’s feeling. He’s Tim Walz- and he’s bringing major Midwestern dad energy to the Democratic ticket.

At least that’s how many white women feel when they see Walz in videos, riding the Slingshot at the state fair with his daughter, signing legislation to give kids in Minnesota free lunches or tweeting about his pet cat.

It’s in stark contrast to what some see in their own fathers - who often have more conservative political views.

“He is silly. My dad used to be very, very silly and goofy,” Pamela Wurst Vetrini, a woman who recently compared Walz to her father, said in a viral TikTok video.

A lot of us had moderate to conservative, educated, sensible fathers that we lost to Rush Limbaugh. That we lost to Fox News. That we lost to Donald Trump. And the cult of conservatism that has grown and grown and grown has driven a wedge between millennial woman and her father,” she said.

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Instead of all this garbage about ‘dad energy’ and whatever else PR nonsense is being pushed, why not focus on what he stands for or has tried to achieve in his career?

There’s no hope for politics in America when both sides engage in this petty personality cultism.

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Attachment figures that project wholesome vibes and safety and good times (silliness) are what every mammal wants unless they have somehow repressed that fundamental instinct. Maybe get in touch with your feelings and you’d understand.

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Yeah but that’s how we got Trump. We shouldn’t choose leaders based on vibes.

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How about you stop electing leaders based on vibes and maybe focus on what’s actually important?

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Like feeding kids and stopping the rampant war on drugs that has destroyed a bunch of lives and families over a little plant called marijuana? He’s my governor and once dems secured a majority in our state they’ve been improving tons of stuff.

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It mentions what he achieved. How is this cultism?

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It’s called projection.

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What we have here, friends, is a classic example of a thought-terminating cliché.

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Every accusation is a confession.

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Im confessing to looking at candidates stances and history over supporting them based on the energy they give off?

. . . okay, is that meant to be a negative thing?

You do understand I like this guy, right?

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You first. I’d love to hear some more about Tim Walz outside of his voting record / legislation he helped pass in Minnesota.

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Because American voters are fickle, and unfortunately this is the shit people vote on. Vibes.

Luckily, his record is also great apparently.

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There’s a ton of policy coverage re: Tim Walz. This article isn’t about that, it’s about a really common reality young people in the US face, where they have parents who have been brainwashed by right-wing media and who can’t spend an afternoon with you without bringing up politics. I’m from a pretty conservative area and know this dynamic all too well. I think Tim Walz’s personality is to be celebrated, and I don’t see at all how this is “cultism” compared to what we see with MAGA

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I’ve learned more about Tim Walz stands for in the last couple of weeks than I ever had before that, including when he was just in the running as VP. And every time I learn something knew about what he stands for, I get more impressed.

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This isn’t cultism you goofball.

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It really is, American politics are all about personality and fanboying your chosen leader.

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Personality and “vibe” are certainly factors, ESPECIALLY in motivating people (especially younger people) to vote. If young people actually voted, the GOP as it stands today would lose every time.

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I like the guy and everything, but can we cool it with the dad stuff? It’s kind of weird. He’s a politician.

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He’s also a father and a guy that gives off sitcom- dad energy.

As opposed to Vance, who gives off HBO drama-distant father energy.

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I think he gives off Netflix True Crime creepy uncle energy

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I could see him featured in a show that involves the FBI, a bag of money and a roadside penis.

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How about: Can we cool it and just have a little fun? The dude is a dorky elder to most of us, and it’s kinda cute.

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Nah. A key difference between left and right is that the left doesn’t worship their political candidates like the right does. That shit is weird.

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Most of us don’t worship our dads.

We have some good memories and some bad ones. I know I do. Walz reminds me, and I think a lot of other people, of the good memories of my dad. My dad is a flawed human being that struggled to do the right thing sometimes but he did struggle, and I love him for the things he taught me and the good memories he left me.

That’s warm fuzzies, not worship

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It would be weird if that was what’s happening, but it’s not. Look, I get where you’re coming from and I agree with you for the most part. But people are excited right now, even I am. I think Walz is a down to earth dude, probably the closest person to me in ‘status’ that might ever see the White House (I’m poor). I think even you would admit that’s pretty cool.

At the end of the day, it’s just people memeing and shit. I say “fuck it, let them ball”, but you do you.

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The deep longing so many people have for their lost fathers is really heart breaking.

Like, fuck. He’s not your dad! Please stop trying to fill the hole in your heart with politicians and celebrities. Please go talk to a therapist about how your father abandoned you, or you lost him to right wing conspiracies, or how you miss him now that he’s dead. Don’t replace him with a guy you saw on TV! This isn’t good for you and you’re just going to get hurt.

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They aren’t trying to fill the hole with someone else, they are just saying one person reminds them of how someone else used to be. They see how this one famous person acts and remember when their dad used to act that way. They aren’t turning the famous guy into a father figure, but they are mourning the loss of their actual father figure. You are way over-analyzing what is being said here.

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And then they’re choosing to materially support their new father figure, because he reminds them of their lost father.

I’ve said it elsewhere, but at least they aren’t giving him money.

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Wait, so you think it is bad to see someone who acts like their ideal person and then choose to vote for them?

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I mean, saying someone feels like the dad you could’ve had doesn’t mean there’s anything pathologic going on. They’re just being wistful and pointing out that Walz is giving cool dad vibes.

I think you’re being a bit hyperbolic by suggesting these women have literally formed a parasocial father-daughter relationship with him in 3 weeks.

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Calling it pathological might be going too far, but it’s heart breaking when someone talks at length about losing their father in the context of saying Walz reminds them of their dad. Whenever people elaborate it becomes clear there’s something wrong.

There’s a broken and sick society that’s producing all these people who are longing for their lost fathers and it’s just. Heartbreaking.

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It is grief. Perfectly natural in those circumstances. Very similar to people loosing their parents to dementia or ALS.

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I see my father all the time but I still love what Walz is out there doing, because he’s the kind of dad that I try to be.

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Goofy dad calling in the national guard on BLM protestors. Silly goose!

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the police state violently crushing dissent is actually good when it’s done by someone who reminds me of my dad!

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two comments below yours:

he made sure only those who deserved it got abducted from the streets

sometimes daddy needs to put his foot down and disappear people I guess?

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you don’t understand, those people definitely deserved it. they were the bad protestors, not the good protestors. the foot-soldiers of the state only attack people who deserve it. this is basic freedomology.

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Who’s shocked?

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Lol yeah dismiss facts because you didnt like the instance I have a second account on.

also lol keep lapping up the dem propaganda unquestioningly

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I don’t like the instance you’re on because it’s full of assholes and you’re not exactly making it easy for me to change that opinion.

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Hexbear hypocrite hating on some guy who provides tampons to trans people.

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I AM shocked. The cropping of this screenshot is terrible.

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He waited to verify that there was a rioter and looter problem before calling them in. Explicitly so he wasn’t calling them in on mere protesters, but looters who deserve it.

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Anything youre basing this on? To clarify: who deserved the terrorisation of the national guard and how did Tim Walz make sure they were targeted.

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If you actually listen to his recounting of the situation… Yeah, actually. I would say that the way he handled that was absolutely the way a (good) dad would.

Including the bit afterwards where they tell you they were wrong for the initial overreaction, but they did it out of fear for your safety.

But after actually listening to why you’re mad, you talk it out and guess what? He recognizes that your anger is valid and opened a dialogue to help fix those problems.

If that’s not “great dad” energy, then I dunno what is.

But let’s not let actual facts get in the way of you pretending to be a progressive on the internet to make leftists look bad.

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Got any links because the search engines are cluttered with articles fact checking trump who keeps wanting to take credit for calling in the national guard.

edit:

If you actually listen to his recounting of the situation

How can I if I only get downvoted with no replies? I’m not even arguing here just asking what it is that I haven’t seen.

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