83 points

What I find worse is when I go to a resteraunt that I went to today. It was a mexican resteraunt. And it was a sit down resteraunt. However, the food was basically fast food. This was a fast food place, better than taco bell, but maybe worse than chipotle. It was priced higher than chipotle by about 30%. And then you have to tip because its a sit down resteraunt. Except…my server took my order, and then I never saw him again. Never refilled my drink. Never came over to check if everything was ok. And it wasn’t a packed house. I was one of 5 tables, and 3 of the other tables had a different server.

Meaning, this guy had 2 tables to attend to, ignored both, someone else brought my food out, and then I sat there, waiting for the check…and he just stood at the bar, and conversed. Finally I went to the hostess table, and said “do I pay here? Orrr…” and she said “No, your server will be by with the check.”

I felt like asking “Will he though???” After like 15 more minutes he came by, meal clearly done, and he says “So, did you want another root beer?”

And then it asked for tip. Tip for what??? You pressed a few buttons on an iPad, and then ghosted the whole dinning room for 45 minutes.

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52 points

And it shouldn’t be your job to reprimand them. And they shouldn’t be financially reprimanded. They should be taught better by mgmt or let go. Not on you to manage someone else’s employees or wages. Wish we would all stop tipping at the same time.

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20 points

huh, tipping as outsourced management. Never thought of it like that. So it’s a win-win: Lower wages and less work to do!

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2 points

Make people do the math too which people hate

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75 points

remember when employers actually paid a living wage and didn’t exploit their employees? … oh, wait …

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8 points

Yeah, me neither.

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1 point

Soon no one will

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4 points

cough europe cough

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Tipped employees generally make way more than anything they’d realistically get on a wage but yeah counter staff gets the worst of it. Shitty wages and they have to deal with people like me who specifically ask where’s the “no tip” button on the screen

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57 points

I hate how every transaction now forces me to pass monetary judgment.

I’d much rather a gratuity be pre-baked into menu prices, so I can easily make purchasing decisions that reflect my financial situation, rather than being surprised at the end.

I hardly go out to eat at all nowadays, partially due to this.

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Surprised at the end? Just thumb through and click no tip. Stop caving to tipping everyone or avoiding things you like. Don’t effing tip.

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40 points

Tipping is a reward for the good service and it is optional.

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Maybe originally, but now a majority of people in the service industry rely on tips cause they are paid like $3/hr

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31 points

In America anyways.

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It’s not even a thing in The rest of the world. I don’t think I’ve ever given a tip in my life.

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14 points

USA™ – The default country

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You could make a decent wage being a server without tips, but there’s legislation saying that they are going to take your proposed taxes from your paychecks before it even gets to your hand. That’s why you make $3/hr. Because the government said they’re taking their money up front. That’s why I think if you do depend on tips, you shouldn’t have to report them because then it just turns into the government double dipping. Also restaurant owners have full control to give you more pay, but they won’t because it’s cheaper for them to depend on customers to pay what they don’t want to

https://www.yourrestaurantbusiness.com/is-it-legal-to-pay-waiters-below-minimum-wage/

https://clockify.me/learn/business-management/tipped-wages/#:~:text=Why do servers only make,exceeds the federal minimum wage.

https://www.dol.gov/agencies/whd/state/minimum-wage/tipped

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Genuinely not my problem. If you’re not paid enough, there’s plenty of low qualification jobs out there.

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Are there really, though? Especially ones that pay a wage you can live on. Those are rare, and generally already occupied by someone who isn’t leaving unless forced to.

Everyone wants to be like “oh if you don’t like it then just quit” but if every restaurant server in your city took that advice I guarantee there would be a huge stink about it. We’ve been hearing it for years already with the “nobody wants to work anymore” - no, people want to work, they need to in order to survive. Just, nobody wants to work for your shitty wages that they can’t pay for both rent and groceries with.

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Of course I remember; it’s now!

And anybody who claims otherwise can go fuck themselves.

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