It’s the same soap and water either way, right? What about sex toys? Am I supposed to wash those in the toilet or something?
What a ridiculous wife!
Does she really think that forcing him into therapy is going to fix anything rather than just make him more sneaky? He’s on an online community for pissing in the sink ffs. He’s made it part of his identity rather than just a disgusting habit.
She washes her face with sink? Interesting choices, but I prefer water
Me, learning my friend washes out the litter box in the shower. I now no longer trust cat people.
Dude.
Ok. first of all all the litter is scooped out first. You’re basically scrubbing a flat tub in the shower. Do you think litter and turds are being dumped out on the floor and hosed down the drain??
Secondly that shower has seen a lot fuckin’ worse than some litter dust.
I don’t really see the problem here. Unless you think homeopathy actually works I guess. Or does that friend not wash and rinse the shower after ?
That’s kind of the entire issue - I’d hope for a full bleach scrub after that, but hosing it off outside would just be so much quicker than a deep clean of the shower, so I feel like there’s some conflicting incentives here which suggest a deep clean is not certain.
But more to the point, psychological cleanliness is not always entirely rational. For me the shower is kind of a sacred clean area, so any attitude which includes using it as a utility sink for feces-adjacent activities conflicts with that on the surface. By the time I’m thinking “how well do they clean it afterwards?” That core psychological safety has already been compromised to some degree. Likewise, a shower with soap scum and discolored tile and dingy fixtures would make most people feel “less clean” even though there is not rational health issues from some simple deferred maintenance. Most people feel “cleaner” when the shower itself appears clean. Knowledge that the shower is not used as a utility sink is exactly the same.
And what do you expect people to do who live in an apartment? Not everybody has a hose and an outside.
Yeah, I have no idea what the best procedure would be, but I think the only things to worry about are foot fungus (no idea if there’s any risk, but your feet are very much touching the shower floor) and rinsing the soap if you drop it when showering? Like, you wash your ass in that shower, it’s not like it’s a clean clean environment anyways.
I am missing something. What did she do to the sink?
given the c-word is used, I think they’re both women? Or australian perhaps