Sure. If people had taken the time to work with you and find your issues and solve them you would have had it better.

That doesn’t require the label it just makes it easier to look up the information for it and see what others have done.

The association of the label doesn’t help you it would be people helping you. Labeling the pain can help you recognize it, labeling the person puts them in a group.

You also have no idea how the part would be if it was different because it wasn’t lived. It’s an easy fantasy rather than living in the present. You would have likely still struggled just differently. So what do we do now for those that still are? Do we label them or are we helping them?