This looks likes somebody in denial, rationalising their feelings
anon was almost fine till the slut shaming bit. itâs totally valid to have boundaries around smoking and alcohol, especially underage where those are significantly notable red flags.
even rationalizing oneâs feelings is a pretty healthy thing to do. far better to acknowledge that the pretty girl had flaws than to pedastal her and pine after an idealized version of her for the rest of his life because thatâs just a recipe for depression and self hate.
that said, her sexual history was none of anonâs business, and the fact that he doesnât even seem sure about it while being willing to judge her character over it speaks volumes.
i hope anon is doing alright and has learned confidence in himself. also hope his relationship with womenâs sexuality can improve cuz yikes.
and herein lies the inherent contradiction of misogynistic objectification đđ
woman who sleep with men are sluts. women who wonât sleep with me? also sluts.
Some just find the idea of their partner having had a lot of other partners unappealing. I get it, itâs a really common thing. Iâm sure some of it is sexism but having a ton of previous partners isnât very appealing to a lot of women either. Plenty of jokes about someone having so many diseases that their dick falls off lol