Seriously I see these posts all the time about people who have a co-worker who steals food so they make gross food to ‘get back at them’ cause HR doesn’t do anything.

Legit question but how do you not just freak out and yell at the person? If a co-worker stole my food the 1st time I’d yell at them and curse them out, the 2nd time I’d threaten to shove the food in their fat face next time I see it happen. If HR didn’t do anything I’d threaten to quit and sue if they claimed I don’t get EI because it’s a toxic work environment.

I just don’t get how people are so passive when co-workers literally steal from them? I’d be fucking livid.

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Because that’s not how the corporate world works. You want to freak out and yell at them? Go ahead. Maybe they don’t eat someone else’s food for a week. Meanwhile you’ll be hunting for a new job. You threaten another employee? You’ll be lucky to be employed at the end of the day.

Life is a series of tradeoffs. The squeaky wheel gets the grease. Tim may steal food, but that doesn’t mean it’s throwing off the status quo. You yell at Tim, you’re upsetting the status quo. So go ahead, and have fun with your pink slip. Hope it was worth it.

Or you can keep your lunch at your desk.

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Good lord this makes me happy I’ve not worked in corporate and stayed in blue collar work.

Someone steals food in a shop, that someone’s gonna have a bad day and the boss yells at anyone “whining”, including the guy who got his ass kicked.

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That sounds awful all around

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Yes, life on earth as per usual. Humans are the problem as usual.

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The only time I’ve ever had my food stolen was when I was working as a deckhand on a tug. I’ve been working white collar jobs for the past 25 years and haven’t had to deal with it since.

Also, my solution was to spray degreaser on my food the next day and wait to see who complains. Turns out, I’m the one who got in trouble for that even though I put a ‘do not eat’ sign in the food.

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Nah you’re just complacent, old man

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Correct, that is another way of putting what I said.

If the choice is:

  • Have a stable job, continue paying my bills on time, enjoy the coworkers I do enjoy, continue on with my life -or-
  • Have a few seconds of glib satisfaction after yelling at a coworker

I mean, yeah, I’m gonna just keep my lunch at my desk.

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The one true way is to find a new job if your coworkers/boss/the job itself is mistreating you.

We did not mistreat you, so don’t take it out on us.

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Yall dealing with people stealing food? Ive worked in an office setting for almost 20 years and ive not once ever heard of someone taking someone elses food

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Where I work there was a night guard who would go around at night and steal food from alle the office break rooms. They installed combination locks on them ans gave the code only to people in the department. When they found the culprit, they fired him. Which is the only sensible thing to do when someone is stealing on the job.

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Steal from the company, not from the employees.

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I’m guessing that they don’t know who stole the food

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I would still make a big deal about it, and demand a solution

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So say 100 people work at this company, the other 98 not involved don’t want to listen to you rant and rave either. They might understand, but the more you escalate the less they want to deal with your shit either.

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Maybe because the only co-worker food theft stories that get upvoted and therefore seen are the dramatic ones about passive-aggressively making gross food for the food thief. And who knows how many of them are true stories and how many are creative writing projects for internet points.

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Making inedible or spicy food to catch a food thief is a trick as old as time and I have even done it myself. There is no other way to catch them out usually.

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My cop relative said everyone working in police stations keeps their stuff in lockers because cops constantly steal from each other. Not just food.

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This is the least surprising thing I have learned today.

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What do you expect when most cops are criminals

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ACAB, eh?

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