I’m sitting in the hospital room I’ve been in since Tuesday and can’t even begin to explain how bored I am. Let’s chat about anything except politics, I could use some distraction.

I collect hobbies and may even know something about your hobbies. What do you like to do?

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Hope you’re doing better now! Sounds like no fun. I’ll send good vibes your way! 🙏

I enjoy gardening, cleaning/tidying things up, vacuuming, basically making everything look neat and fresh! My parents fondly remember that when I was little, I would randomly clean the bathroom and they would always remark how they knew I’d cleaned it because they could see the reflection of their faces on the tiles. I write from time to time, mostly short stories that would fall under the definition of creepypastas or horror short stories.

I also love drawing, here’s some of my work! No AI is used in my process, and you can look at the progress pictures I’ve uploaded to get a gist of my technique!

I’ve used Paint Tool SAI 1 for as long as I’ve been drawing digitally, and I honestly wouldn’t settle for anything else! It’s very lightweight and also old, but it’s a very good app for drawing.

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Doing better, thanks, not out of the woods yet.

Your art is pretty amazing!

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Glad to hear! Take it easy and be sure to rest up as much as you can! Also thank you so much! I’m glad you like it!

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Does your hospital room have one of those 0-10 pain scales? I hate those!! I’m so bad at them! I need something more objective so now i use 4 wakes you up and 7 makes you teary/cry. For 10 they say ‘worst pain imaginable’ so i always think it’s like my arm was ripped off and I’m in a car fire with shards of glass. Nothing has ever been a 10.

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I have experience some of what I’m told is the worst pain possible. Kidney stones, migraines that hit like cluster headaches. I wouldn’t rate any of them a 10 because I’m always like… I could definitely feel more pain. Kidney stones are unmanageable pain, but it’s not sheer agony shrieking through every nerve constantly.

Like you could rip off my arm and that would fucking hurt unimaginably, but then you could always pour salt on it after.

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Basically you don’t rate pain at 9 or 10. At that point you are unintelligible and someone rates it for you.

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I rated it at 9 once, “Wanna know the difference between 9 and 10? I can still control the swearing at 9!”

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I had a kidney stone get stuck and infected, the pain was so severe I vomited in the doctors office. “OK, surgery at 5, 5 work for you?”

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I get debilitating migraines also, so I can relate.

I’ve heard stories about kidney stones and it sounds absolutely horrible.

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This one may be more to your liking.

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Bear or ninjas! 🤣🤣

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Mine:

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Shattered my thigh once. Didn’t hurt too much. Until they moved me. That’s my 10 now.

Nothing else has gone above a 7 since.

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It does! It’s especially difficult when they wake you up at 2am to ask.

That is a really good system, it’s going into effect immediately :)

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I’m a newbie in photography. Just got a second hand Fujifilm X-S10 and Sigma 18-50 lens a few weeks ago, making time to go out and explore new places is now the harder part haha.

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I love taking pictures, but I’m too lazy to carry my camera around, so I usually just end up using my phone lol

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Yeah, that’s also an additional effort lmao. That’s why I was quite firm on not going full frame when choosing a camera. Weight is king after all. The Olympus OM5 and even the EP7 were also quite tempting to me before I got the XS10 (maybe they still are). So small!

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I’m sitting in the airport lounge in Accra after spending a week here in Ghana.

I’ve taken so many pictures and I think this has been a life-changing journey. Before this, I used to write daily, but whether from aging or just fading desires, I’d all but stopped writing anything in the last few years. This trip has renewed my fervor for writing again, so I’m just excited to pursue my lifelong hobby writing just because I can once again.

If you’ve got nothing else better to do, I made some daily posts in an old-fashioned blog I’ve kept for a while: https://kaitco.wordpress.com/ (Maybe skip the post where I wallow in depression from Tuesday… 😅).

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A week is such a short time! I love to travel, but I have to admit, Ghana wasn’t really on my radar. What’s the story behind the trip (if you don’t mind sharing)?

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About 20 years ago, my grandmother built a house in Ghana near Cape Coast as a sort of legacy for her children, grands, and great-grands. It’s been on the list to visit while she was still here and also while my dad was still here, so this has been a very emotional journey. My grandmother used to spend about 9 months out of the year in travelling particularly in Africa because she always felt that it was our “true” home.

My aunt goes every other year, and I finally had the time and the means to go. It was a very fulfilling trip because this was our family home, and I was with some of my cousins, too. A week is a short time, but there is so much to see and to do, that even 3 months wouldn’t be enough time. I got a wealth of experiences though even in this short time, and now I can plan better for the next time I come here. ☺️

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That’s a great story! Do you travel often?

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Tell me about the jollof rice!

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I am in love with jollof rice!! I feel like that’s all I ever want to eat for the rest of my life! Haha!

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Try a Cajun dirty rice sometime, it’s the only real competitor.

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Out of interest, how does one “collect hobbies”? What does that involve/look like?

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Basically, I get into a hobby and I do it until it is all encompassing. Then right about the time I get to where you really have to grind to the next level, I lose interest.

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Cool. If you would, can you give an example?

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Geocaching is one and Ingress another.

I was a hardcore geocacher for about 3 years until I realized I just wasn’t into it anymore. I played Ingress for a few years as well and just kinda burned out.

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