NGL, I’ve met 3 people in my life that are/were drag queens. All 3 have tried to get in my pants even though I’m not gay. HOWEVER COMMA, that was just 3 people in that community. That doesn’t define the whole demographic. A person that didn’t grow beyond their narrow upbringing probably wouldn’t have that kind of perspective. It creates fear and shame for who those people really are. Granted I also was not friends with those people. I didn’t know them beyond their persona’s and they didn’t know me beyond barroom shenanigans. But digressing back to my point, if you grow up in a household where your true feelings of how you should live are suppressed, then that creates shame which puts people like this in this position. It’s a way of thought that is quickly diminishing and people are beginning to be able to live how they want regardless of personal opinion. The people who scream against those acts and get caught participating should definitely be criticized, but criticized still with open arms because that’s a victory for all parties.
But, I’m a white cis male, so my opinion should be taken with a grain of salt
Not sure what that first point was about. Drag isn’t as much of a life style as it is a recreation(at least within the context of the Queer community). When Drag Queens go to work, they aren’t doing it in drag. Not sure where you met those three drag queens, but I would guess it was at a party and that you’ve met many, many more drag queens in your life.
I was trying to express that I understood how and why people would be bothered by drag queens themselves. Very narrow minded perspective mind you, but I still understand it and found a way out of it. I m certain those 3 people didn’t mean anything by it. Nor did I mean anything really by saying the number. That’s just how. I don’t let them represent the entire demographic, but I also understand the perspective of those people that have been acclimated to oppose it
You said it yourself that you didn’t know them beyond their personas and they didn’t know you beyond the bar. Regardless this doesn’t make them pedophiles
Why do use an example of 3 drag queens hitting on you as an example of them doing something bad? I’ve been hit on by other guys even though I’m straight, and I find it flattering more than anything. It’s not like people know your sexual preferences by looking at you.
I think you mean, “Drag queens caught partying with GOP candidate who called them pedophiles.”
Likely he believes his open propaganda and was hoping to hangout with pedos.
Do drag queens know everyone who comes at the club/venue they’re performing?
The point of the comment wasn’t to blame the drag queens. It was to reverse the implicit shame of being, “caught,” that’s in the title, giving the connotation that it’s shameful or embarrassing to associate with the GOP candidate, not the other way around. It was just a little quip that I’m sure I’ve made much funnier with this explanation.
I didn’t even catch it until you explained lol, the explanation did actually make it funnier for me
Tbh I never seen a lgbtq person who was a pdf file ever in my life only once
I’ve yet to as well. It is my community so biased perspective but I have met soooo many queers with odd kinks and not a single one is into kids. Many were abused themselves as kids (not always sexually but still) and have no interest in repeating that on anyone else.
Oh it happens. We as a community aren’t all angels. Some of us get very VERY warped by religious or cultural trauma where because the base assumption is that we are monsters already by virtue of being something shameful there is a lowered boundary to other shamed behaviours…
But what stops that shame spiral is normalizing queer identities and creating good community with good praxis. Consent is king in so many queer spaces where I am because we’ve all basically had to imbibe the lessons of therapy to rescue people out of the dark. We discuss gold standards of sexual health and behaviour and conduct with frankness and lack of shame because generations of us were abandoned to places where we were vulnerable to exploitation. To become a pdf file is to lose your community as nothing is so disgusting to people in queer spaces as someone who would cause that kind of damage as it is expected that you know exactly what the knock on effects of that act are.
I’m sure someone can send you some gay porn in a PDF if you really want them to.
Every accusation is a confession.
Yes. Literally every single one.
RFK Jr. has had to literally make a public denial that he ate a dog. And yet he seems to have no sympathy for Haitian migrants.
https://thehill.com/homenews/campaign/4753486-rfk-jr-vanity-fair-article/
How is this news?
