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It’d be interesting if men took on their wife’s first name, so it would immediately indicate to others if a man was married or not. And then there’d be pushback, in the same way there is to the ‘Mrs’ and ‘Miss’ titles, and parents would start naming their sons with female names to start with. (it works less well the other way around, because there’s already girls called ‘Dylan’ and ‘Taylor’, etc).

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Plenty of guys named Kelly or Ashley or Avery or Morgan, already.

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Well those are all historically guys names AFAIK.

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Well, yeah. Dunno how popular those names still are though. There’s also androgynous-sounding name like ‘Alex’ or 'Andy, of course, but I figured that the general idea was to take a flight of fancy and riff on it, not shoot it down from the skies.

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What if we did like Quebec instead and didn’t take anybody’s name… Remain your own person. Enough with this antiquated BS.

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I think the reality is it should be up to the individuals to decide whatever the hell they want to do. It’s totally fine if a woman wants to take her husbands name. And equally fine for her not to. Vice versa as well, no reason the husband can’t make that decision.

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The reality is that as long as it is an option you will be perpetuating this social construct that is heavily steeped in patriarchy.

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So you should tell women what to do if YOU think it’s the right thing for them to do?

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Here’s one example of this system in use https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Icelandic_name

Edit - I realize I probably misunderstood the question. But as said in another comment, it’s just a swap if we’re not talking about patronymic/matronymic naming systems.

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Turns out Iceland was Arab all along (this system is also what people use in the Arab world).

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Naww it wasn’t a question, my dude. It was a shower thought. A silly random idea that spurs some entertainment of thoughts and scenarios. But thanks! <3

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Americans already have a confusing number of unisex names, so why not make all names unisex. The gender noun confusion clearly isn’t enough, so why not max out the potential confusion you can create.

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I second your proposal. Just call them all „Bart“ and „ Maggie“ if female

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5 points

Everyone is Doug now.

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🌍🧑‍🚀🔫🧑‍🚀

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Why stop there. Just keep on using all the usual names, but make them all unisex.

For example, if Tony is texting to Anna, He will have no idea if Anna is a he or she until they meet face to face. Also, Anna might be expecting to meet a woman, but will be surprised to find that Tony is actually a guy. Then, Anna tells Tony, that they should really talk to Karen for some weight lifting tips because he’s been lifting for years.

Sounds confusing, but you’ll actually know who is married and who is still single. Pretty handy, eh?

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Any name is already unisex, it just depends how many people it’s applied to. Look at older names like Ashley and Taylor.

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In this world I suppose we’d start referring to people by last names more often

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Yeah all you’ve done is put the family name first. Which is already a thing in some parts of the world.

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