99 points

Don’t fall for it. Kids cost way more than that.

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31 points

How much does it cost to even have a baby in a hospital? 🤔

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36 points

My co-worker paid $39,000 two years ago. It was ~$25,000 for us ~14 years ago.

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22 points

Fuck. When i was born, i had to spend some time in an incubator. My mom fell in a coma and woke up 1 month later. We were in the hospital the whole time.

Tons of exams for my mom …

This would have ruined my parents, if i would have been born in the USA, which almost happened.

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My co-worker paid $39,000 two years ago. It was ~$25,000 for us ~14 years ago.

That’s without insurance, right?

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And don’t forget the cost of caring for a kid is somewhere in the realm of $10k over the first year.

P.S. Always request an itemized bill from hospitals. Magically the amount owed will go down.

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At least your remaining deductible, perhaps up to your max-year-out-of-pocket pre-paid weeks in advance assuming you have insurance and they’re in-network. So… almost certainly above 5k.

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5 points

As someone who pays max out of pocket every year I can say it was a bit over 24k last year but have not calculated this year. This is monthly cost of insurance for two people plus out of pocket. Its insane how much I have to bring home to stay above water.

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Hospital isn’t where it ends. I’m paying like 30 cents to 50 cents per diaper. Newborns can go thru like 8 of them a day, down to 3-4 once they are a few years old. Kids still wear them at night until sleep without peeing. Average it out to 2 a day * 0.40 * 365 * 5 yrs Or, 10 * 0.40 * 365 So around $1400 in diapers alone. Not including all the creams / wipes you need with that. Food. Medicine. Clothes. Toys. Sick days. Car seats. Strollers. Childcare for a thousand or two per month.

Give 50k and maybe you’d break even.

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It’s all in what insurance, and the hospital ital costs are only the beginning

About 18 years ago we were pretty well covered: deductible wasn’t bad. But other people talked about first year supplies. You also have multiple doctor visits so even if it’s just deductible it starts adding up. Then we had an allergy thing where special food was $1,400/month - luckily we only had to pay a few months while arguing with insurance

Then we arrive at today. All those years of kid expenses made it tough to save, but now we have college expenses and the current administration is cutting financial aid

We need so much more than $5k to raise kids

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At least 10k with no complications, plus whatever income you lose from not working

Source

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8 points

My sister’s girl had a baby boy about 3 years ago.

$0

Phew. 🇨🇦

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My insurance was billed, I want to say 27k…just for cesarean and two days post care, for my first kid in 2016.

Second kid was an induced vbac and only one day stay in a smaller hospital…I think that was closer to 16k.

However…our insurance fully covers maternal care…so I think it was just the 30k in annual premiums, between what I pay and what my employer pays…plus the 5k deductible.

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6 points

We had twins, induced with epidural, with two days hospital stay, insurance was billed like 80k. We had to cover like 7k

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Depends on your insurance. I had 2 C-sections, both qualified by my doctors as “medically necessary,” and good insurance, so everything was covered. Note: it was in the 1990s, insurers have become increasingly dickish about that “medically necessary” qualification.

Also note: It’s not the initial cost, it’s the maintenance. My now-adults are priceless, but it’s been a lot of money!

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6 points

All the natalist bs from the right is not about children but about making the parents submit to the collar.

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2 points

But I can get my 80” LED TV now!!!

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39 points

Nothing like a $5k bonus for accepting a half million liability (at least).

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9 points

I have a modest proposal that might take care of that liability

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6 points

Yeah, the worst part is it’ll just incentivize idiots to breed.

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13 points

Those are the ones they want

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10 points

They love the poorly educated.

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Cost of raising a middle-income child in the US to age 18 (excludes college/university) is around $375,000 pre-cost increase due to the amazing economic changes. But hey, $5k sure sounds worth it! /s

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7 points

How about they just stop cutting college aid and we call it even?

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25 points

Once again right wing policies don’t match up with what their stated goals are. This won’t even cover the hospital bill for delivering the kid, let alone what it costs to raise them.

If the right wing actually wanted to raise birth rates, they’d be offering universal healthcare, at least triple the current minimum wage, free preschool, free college/trade school, substantial paid parental leave for both parents, actual sick time/PTO laws.

Not this insult

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3 points

I’m not sure what this comment is responding to.

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3 points

I was just posting rough numbers to agree with you, but think the figures cited in the article are extremely conservative.

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25 points

that number needs 2 more zeros

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