I don't find therapy all that useful.(lemmy.world)

I’ve never seen or heard anybody tell men not to trauma dump. On the contrary, I’ve only seen people tell men that they should open up and be comfortable with their emotions.

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This is fine🔥🐶☕🔥@lemmy.world

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5 months ago

Ok, should I give screenshots as proof or are you willing to go to askwomen/twox/or any other women centric places and see for yourself?

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rekorse@lemmy.world

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5 months ago

Are you going to those places to talk about your problems? I think you might be misunderstanding the point of those communities.

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This is fine🔥🐶☕🔥@lemmy.world

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5 months ago

Nope. That’s just women discussing amongst themselves or answering questions about red flags or relationships.

Other terms I learnt are: love bombing, breadcrumbing, benching.

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rekorse@lemmy.world

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5 months ago

I know it might be strange to think, but not even close to a percent of women frequent those spaces.

Do you really think thats where youll find how the average woman feels?

Those terms are just as foreign to the average woman as they are to us. If you dont believe me, go look at the male equivalent spaces to those you listed. See if the men posting there represent your views well.

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This is fine🔥🐶☕🔥@lemmy.world

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5 months ago

It’s not just reddit. It’s on every social media.

To think that such opinions are reaching only a small percentage of people in this day and age is just naivety.

Secondly, I’m not from the ‘West’. The cultural divide between traditional and modern is much more stark where I’m from than it is in the ‘West’.

Which means, if I want to date an independent woman in my country, it is most likely that she holds such views influenced by social media. Which means I have even fewer chances here than I’d have outside.

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