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Employers can’t find good candidates either. The entire system is broken and AI made it so much worse. In person events are the only way these days

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Yeah, so I’m prepping like hell for the upcoming Career Fair at my school, but I really don’t know what else to do. I’m not a “social butterfly”.

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As someone who escaped that hellhole a while back the secret is networking.

I’m a very introverted person who hates small talk and showing off, so it was miserable, but all of the interviews I got, except for one, out of my 250-350 applications were solely from networking. I started going through my contacts and shit, and I was looking at who I knew in the field, or might have connections in it. Worked wonders.

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I started going through my contacts

Yeah that’s my problem. I’m an extremely insular autistic person with basically zero contacts. Other than my dentist or Lemmy, I haven’t had a semi-serious conversation with anyone in literally weeks.

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The unfortunate reality is that you need to be personable first, and knowledgeable second. They’re both important, but you can’t get in the door without the first. Try to find a common ground with the interviewer or whoever you talk to at the fair, it will boost your chances 1000x

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You just need to CONfidence

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a “social butterfly” is someone who bounces around a lot, interacting with many people but connecting deeply with none.

Your generation needs to be careful using that term as the gold standard for social skills. It’s not entirely a good thing.

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I hope you aren’t paying to much for school. A college degree is important but I see a pot of people get the degree and fall on there face.

What I would recommend is to do a practice interview with a career coach. Most universities have a career center.

Also have related hobby type stuff you can point to if you don’t have a not of experience. Be ready to learn and enjoy what you do.

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