That’s not the classical sense, that’s the modern pop culture sense. The classical sense is an asexual. But luckily for you, drag was also using the modern pop culture sense when drag said narcissism is left wing.
Fascist movements are primarily made up of submissives. People who want to be dominated. White men who want a big strong man to tell them what to do. Sure, a fascist movement will sometimes have a dom at the top, but half the time it doesn’t even need that. Source: the Crusades. That was nothing but armies of bottoms committing a genocide to please Mummy God.
One in a million fascists is a narcissist. And one in a million narcissists is the leader of a fascist movement. But the other 999,999? They’re all on the left, because they only care about themselves, and the left is the side that actually helps people.
You should want to have friends who only care about themselves, because they’ll want to maintain the friendship and have a good life with you. The friends you gotta watch out for are the selfless assholes. Those are the kinds of people who commit a genocide because Sky Daddy says so.
When drag doesn’t understand someone else’s point of view, drag listens to them and uses empathy and tries to reason drag’s way through their worldview. Maybe you could do that.