Itâs been trending this way for years, but seeing it graphed out like this is shocking.
What do you think are the effects of this drastic change?
They may not be perfect but itâs better than sitting around swiping for the perfect person that may not exist.
I actually appreciate having information on personality, background, hobbies and dating intentions up-front, rather than play a guessing game for hours or days.
When I was dating in the late 2000âs and early 2010âs, I remember adding dates as friends on Facebook, somewhere around the first date, specifically to be able to get a sense of their personality/background/interests, and to show off mine, even for people I met in person.
It wasnât online dating through a dating app, but online presence was still a huge part of the actual process.
Even before that, in the early 2000âs, I remember stuff like AIM profiles that could at least link to photo albums that show off things that youâve done recently. And even then having always-on broadband Internet, to where weâd be logged into AIM or ICQ, was its own flex.
Yes. There is nothing bad about having some more information up front, but in my experience some people will describe themselves as they think others want to see them and not always who they are. In which case it can take a few hours, days or even months before you really start to see who they are.