An ultrasound tech once told me that I have a cute spleen.

So… the dishes were important enough for your partner to berate you about them multiple times, but not important enough for them to do the washing-up while you were out? Are they always your responsibility? Did you have a mutual conversation and understanding about chore division, or has your partner implicitly or explicitly assigned certain chores to you?

What measures of responsibility does your partner take for their own sleep? Sleep mask? Ear plugs? White noise? Weighted blanket? Other measures? Or is it all on you to accommodate them?

Would offering to sleep on the couch if you come home after they’re asleep feel like a reasonable compromise for you?

Does having a curfew set for you by your partner seem like a normal thing to you? Are you surprised that people here think it’s not normal?

Does your partner regularly use belittling or derogatory language towards you as you’ve detailed here? Does it feel to you that using such language is justified by your ADHD?

Does this situation seem like a one-off thing, or is it often a problem that you have not read your partner’s mind?

I think you’ve got some important questions to ask yourself here.

I only see one Wayoun…

After watching through all of DS9 all I need is the chin for a positive identification.

I use only the flowers. Here’s a picture of them mid-processing.

Every time I head to the second-hand store I pick up a couple new CDs and DVDs. It’s great! I’m paying max $3.99 apiece and I’ll own them forever.

It’s hard to describe tastes without relation to other tastes – I’d say it’s similar to chamomile, but somewhat greener/grassier. It tastes like early spring. With a little bit of sugar it’s very nice!

I get a lot of use out of glass screen protectors. I’m quite clumsy and they’ve saved my screen many times! I’ve used a couple of different brands and they sometimes take more than one try for me to line up correctly, but $10 and a few minutes of mild annoyance is a very small price to pay compared to replacing a whole phone screen.

It’s opportunity costs all the way down, baby!

Heat to 69 in the winter, cool to 74-76 in the summer.