0 points

Tbf I also sometimes disagree with trans people. For example my cute friend told me that red is not my color and she is so wrong about that? Like??

permalink
report
reply
0 points

As a bi person who does support trans people, I dislike pride parades b/c they make us all look bad. Now what?

permalink
report
reply
0 points

As a straight guy, I like going with my gf because the atmosphere and party is great. Also, just to show support

permalink
report
parent
reply
0 points

good for you! in my experience the vibes highly depend on the city

permalink
report
parent
reply
0 points

That makes sense

permalink
report
parent
reply
0 points

Don’t go to them. Seems simple.

permalink
report
parent
reply
0 points
*

Edit: Let me make this make sense for the people who are so eager to downvote one of their own. Let’s say you attend an endangered whale conservation group, but data shows the group’s actions (due to a few careless individuals) have actually led to more whale deaths than it has prevented. Then your response to someone critiquing you is “then don’t join the group”? You see how that is unproductive, if not morally reprehensible?

This condescending attitude is the same type of exclusionary BS that got us into needing pride parades in the first place, you know.

“Don’t think like me? You’re not welcome here. We cannot accommodate a diversity of perspectives. It’s our way or the highway.”

And liberals wonder why right wingers accuse them of being fascists.

permalink
report
parent
reply
0 points

What? You said you don’t like pride parades and the response was “don’t go then”. Not everything is for everyone.

Do you want everyone who enjoys pride parades to change them to specifically cater to you?

permalink
report
parent
reply
0 points

Literally just replace “trans” with any other queer identity and see how that sound you bozo.

permalink
report
reply
0 points

Well it’s likely that such a fuckwad, does have his issues with Bi people as well.

permalink
report
parent
reply
0 points

I will never understand why any gay person would ever be transphobic.

Like…??? You do understand that people have used many of the exact same arguments against trans rights as they’ve done to suppress gay rights too… right?

permalink
report
reply
0 points

Oh no, for some of them it’s totally different. Also there is a lot of homophobia inside the homosexual circles. Couldn’t believe it myself, but sometimes if you don’t look or act like the cliche or like common homosexual stuff like music or movies, you’re an imposter and not really gay. Saw it happen myself at a lesbian party. Two girls just looking female were bullied cause it’s “not lesbian” for a couple to be both female looking, that’s just two best friends being confused. “It’s just a phase” is a thing I heard quite a lot that evening. Never knew you signed up for a membership with rules and stuff when you’re “entering” the LG area. Just thought if you only like women as a woman you’re lesbian and same for men only liking men, but it seems that’s not the case.

permalink
report
parent
reply

Gay: News, Memes and Discussion

!gay@lemmy.world

Create post

Welcome to /c/Gay - Your LGBTQ+ Haven

We’re more than just a community; we’re your haven for celebrating LGBTQ+ culture and connecting with like-minded individuals.

Community Rules:

~ 1. No bigotry. Hating someone off of their race, culture, creed, sexuality, or identity is not remotely acceptable. Mistakes can happen but do your best to respect others.

~ 2. Keep it civil. Disagreements will happen. That’s okay! Just don’t let it make you forget that the person you are talking to is also a person.

~ 4. Keep it LGBTQ+ related. This one is kind of a gimme but keep as on topic as possible.

~ 5. Keep posts to a limit. We all love posts but 3-4 in an hour is plenty enough.

~ 6. Try to not repost. Mistakes happen, we get it! But try to not repost anything from within the past 1-2 months.

~ 7. No General AI Art. Posts of simple AI art do not ‘inspire jamaharon’ and fuck over our artist friends.

Community stats

  • 717

    Monthly active users

  • 177

    Posts

  • 226

    Comments