I don’t think those are mutually exclusive
I suspect both of these things to be true. I’m good with that.
The only reason I like half my friends is because they did or said something really weird and I knew I had to see more.
I deal with so much weird shit, I can forget about it on the ride home.
If that makes anyone feel better.
This is unironically my greatest fear, and I know this to be true.
The cringe is real.
don’t fear these things, even if careful, something we do(say) will look(sound) weird to someone else from time to time
Celebrate that we are all weird and enjoy it. Forgive and reassure others for their weirdness so they do the same for you.