Everyone has one. lets try to recognize and be grateful of what we have!

White, male privilege.

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Nah, if you aren’t a magat, they revoke your privilage anyways.

If cops know you support any ideology left of Biden, they will shoot you too. We’re in this together.

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Yeah, I guess left-leaning white males are just as underprivileged and oppressed as people of color and women. We should rename it to “conservative white male privilege.”

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I know you’re joking, but queer white men exist, and they also face oppression.

It’s almost like the system that keeps us all oppressed actually doesn’t give a shit about these marginal differences, and just wants to keep us focused on identity politics and fracturing ourselves.

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Yeah nothing to be proud of but I can’t discount how powerful this one is, now that I’m “woke” to it.

Like I have worked for people for years and just not known they were racist or sexist, only for them to let it slip. And then you see behind the mask.

Realising why there are no people of colour in my office, or women with any kind of power. Realising I would not have this job if I was not a white man.

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As a queer person, it feels even weirder. Like I’m a spy and my cover could be blown at any moment.

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Welcome to being “high functioning” autistic, which is basically an undercover assignment from birth where if you slip up suddenly you have enemies.

Nobody, literally zero people, will acknowledge treating autistic people differently but holy shit.

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Even as a straight I kinda feel that way sometimes, all theses assholes keep telling on themselves to me. It’s also depressing how many of them there are

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I hate it when you see those images on other SM of poor white people and some knuckle dragger says “I see no white privilege here”.

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Why do you hate that?

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Because white privilege doesn’t mean you were born rich, it means you have to work harder for the same or less.

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That’s nothing compared to good looks. Opens literally all doors in life. Secret cheat code.

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Did you ever use it?

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It’s not something you actively use, it is just “there.”

For example: I applied to a job as a refrigeration technician and during the interview the guy actually fucking said “it’s really hard to get clean cut white guys to apply. I don’t want some Dominican (literally referring to their Dominican maintenance guy) walking into a store with our logos on.”

I had finished a tech school with some other black guys that I know also applied, I got the job and they didn’t. :/

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I bet that interviewer cheers like crazy when a Dominican player hits a home run for their favorite team, LOL.

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A motivated person? Crazy

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Been there, wasn’t that great.

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White, male privilege and loving parents that supported me in all ways when needed. Seriously, life has been almost on peaceful mode, definitely easy mode.

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loving parents that supported me in all ways when needed.

This is the component that I was missing. I have the white male privilege, but I’ve always had split parents and 2 stepfathers that were always dicks. I had to move out at 18. My friend had the exact opposite situation where he could stay at home as long as he needed to and he spent his time studying towards a computer science degree. I always had to worry about moving and paying rent so I never pursued anything “difficult” or time consuming as I never knew when I’d have to move again so I’m now just a worthless, single, factory worker schmuck living in someone’s garage and my friend is happily married working from home making major money from a well known major corporation.

We couldn’t possibly have more different outcomes unless our skin color were also different.

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I’m sorry you got a rough rub, man. I’m heading in a similar direction (moved out at 17, now late 20s working a dead end job to barely afford bills and halfway trying to go to school) and yeah, shits depressing, especially when you have friends that had similar interests and skills as you that were able to make something out of them (my friend who’s floor I slept on the last year of highschool is now a literal rocket scientist).

Just remember, we’re never truly worthless! So long as we keep clocking in every day, we have immense value to our employers. And what more could a person ask for.

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A lot of people saying white + male, I’m not white but I’m light skinned in a country where colourism is a social plague, random people literally call me “whitey” and “blondy” despite me literally having a black mother, when I tell them I’m not white they reply “yes, you are”, and I’m like “OK, mfer, apparently you know better than me to what ethnic group I belong”. Can’t say I haven’t benefited from it, the police has almost never given me shit (they did once to be exact). I’m also a heterosexual cis man, and even tho I was born and raised in the poorest district of a big city my father always told me to cultivate my intellect, so I learned multiple languages (English being one of those), went to community college, taught myself software development, etc. I didn’t have the biggest head start in life, but compared to my friends in the hood, and women and immigrants across the whole country I simply cannot complain.

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I was lucky to have money to invest at the right time when the markets crashed in 2008 and 2020, when stocks could be had at a 90% discount. As a result I was able to pay off my student loans and put a down payment on my residence with the profits, just by being willing to wait a few years for the market to recover.

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I’m white, my family is middle-ish class, I don’t pay rent.

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