Could be physical, mental, philosophical, religious etc

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Walking. Long daily walks.

It changed (& helped save) my life.

Edit (to give some context):
When I started to walk, I was barely able to walk at all. Like, really, a few steps to get to the mailbox would kill me and have me lay on bed for hours. I was in a really bad, bad shape (in the head too). Nowadays, I will walk 8-10km every single day and, added to that, I will go everywhere walking if at all possible. I’m still not an athlete but at the least my body is not a dead weight anymore (I feel better in the head too). And it all changed the day I decided I would simply walk a little more. A few steps at first, and then more, and then more. I was impressed by the huge impact of a seemingly little change. I celebrated each ‘win’ (the first time I walked the block, the first kilometer, and so on) and I never blamed myself for the (many) fails. Instead, I tried to analyze the reasons why I failed so I could do better next time.

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Agreed so much. There is a good mental component to walking outside. It helps me de-compress the day. I also make a point to walk 6/7 days even if it’s raining or cold or just miserable outside.

It doesn’t need to be much, a 20 minute walk each day is way better than none at all.

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It doesn’t need to be much, a 20 minute walk each day is way better than none at all.

Exactly, I could see the effect on me (body and mind…soul?) very quickly, and back then I walked not much at all :)

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This is solid advice and a well-written post. Thank you!

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Thank you :)

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Don’t compare yourself to others, compare yourself to your past self.

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Oddly, that works in negatively for me.

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If you dream of a past high point and wish to return to it, it’s better to use it as inspiration and look to create new high points that belong to your current self.

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If more of us were doing that, the world would most certainly be a much, much less shittier place than it is!

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I’m still fat by these rules … damn

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I deamericanized my social media on the wake of the Trump electoral win. Desubbed from US Youtube channels, blocked magazines here that mostly deal with US politics while keeping world politics, unfollowed Masto and Bluesky accounts using similar rules.

I thought it may be an empty gesture, but… no, no it wasn’t. My social media is healthier, I’m more keyed in to domestic news. Apparently somebody shot an American CEO and I’m not sure when it happened or what’s up with that because all my feeds are about France and South Korea, which are objectively way more important.

If you’re not American, consider it. Walk away from the cultural imperialism. It’ll only become a better choice over time now.

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I’d even say to consider it if you are American. There is so much great stuff out there that you only find outside the bubble.

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Thanks for this, I might have to try it this new year. I’m not conservative, so the coming Trump administration will emotionally affect me.

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If I choose to do something later, put it physically in the way.

Trash needs taking out, but I’ll do it in the morning? Put it in front of the door.

It is both a reminder and an obstacle to overcome.

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Are you my wife?

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I call this “physical memory”. If you struggle with remembering things, you can organize your space to augment your memory. It’s VERY effective and is often simpler/easier than writing things down.

Also, if you are living with someone who does this, for the love of god, do not move their stuff without asking. You are basically erasing part of their memory and setting them up for failure.

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Immediately tossing negative/intruding thoughts when i think them. It took a year or two to start doing it so naturally i didn’t even realize i was doing it.

Huge game changer with depression, and just life in general.

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