They all have iPhones and Google Android. Since all my calls and text messages are monitored on their phones, am I causing any additional harm to myself by using Google Messages on GrapheneOS? That way I could at least use RCS messaging.
Don’t cut off contacts unless absolutely necessary.
I did it for years, and now I’m living again; I have access to events too, simply because I’m now on WhatsApp and Discord. It’s a shame, but that’s how it is. But you can control what you decide to say, and make a physical appointment and then share IRL.
If you choose to boycott, the big risk is standing alone and just arming yourself, as you mentioned.
I think you already know the answer.
Joining a militant network is another way to find people who share your concerns, but you will have to search for them, and that can require a significant effort. But you will have new friends, and make your socials, bigger. Thats a good thing.
You will have many networks, separated.
I don’t know what else to say.
From now on, I’m ending every post with an “I dont know what else to say.” Fucking mint.
Edit: I don’t know what else to say.
Google RCS, which is effectively just another proprietary internet messaging app despite being based on a standard at least claims to use end-to-end encryption, and is probably more resistant to mass surveillance than SMS. If those are your options, Google RCS is an upgrade.
IMHO it’s not just about the messages but whatever else the app might have access to just by being installed on your phone.
https://f-droid.org/packages/net.typeblog.shelter/
And with GOS, don’t hesitate to explore settings for each apps, even in the work profile
Good luck to you, and have fun
Beeper can bridge those into a matrix chat. Then at least you can chat with people who or on a privacy related one as well as the heathens in Facebook messenger
You can lead a horse to water, you cannot make it drink.
With my people from we use Signal.
Friends and family stick to text as it too hard to make everyone else change.
Because their friends use text… why change…
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