Mine was probably when I relapsed towards religion at age 15-16 and joined my mom’s conservative megachurch, naïvely thinking I can convince them to be less bigoted and more “christ-like” as well as accept science

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My cringe only grew more powerful as I aged. King of cringe my whole life.

Unfortunately I was blind sided by blue conservatives jerking themselves off over what trump will do to people they dislike. I have since lost my crown.

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Coming into a thread that has nothing to do with politics and using it to soapbox your political superiority is still kinda cringe, ngl.

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Props to the commitment

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blue conservatives

I think you’re still in your cringe teenage phase

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Been there. I’m still religious, I just hide it now.

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Wearing lots of very thick-ribbed corduroy.

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very thick-ribbed

For her pleasure. ;)

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exactly

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I wore over the top outfits. Suit jackets, headbands, waistcoats, bright red skinny jeans, leather biker jackets, fedoras, big glasses with fake lenses, studded belts, etc etc in all sorts of combos.

The fedora and waistcoat over a white dress shirt as casualwear is what I’m most ashamed of. I don’t know what in the hell I was thinking. I must have looked like a total dickhead around my normally dressed peers.

This was a phase that probably lasted no more than a year when I was about 18-19. I wish someone had told me that I looked ridiculous lmao

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There was this kid my friends referred to as “top hat kid” cuz he wore a top hat and trench coat. Yours seems less cringe than that.

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I didn’t wear a trenchcoat. If I told you what I did instead, I’d probably doxx myself. It was cringe.

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I love it. Don’t be ashamed, you were telling the world you were open to trying new things and being adventurous. Finding your own style rather than following the mainstream is sexy. I used to be that way and slowly confirmed and now I’m trying to get back to my younger self, where I cared less about what others thought.

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Annoying atheist who tried to argue with religious people with Facts and Logic.

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Did you become religious again or just a less annoying atheist?

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Not OP, but coming from the same place: less annoying (I hope!) atheist.

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The latter

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Not OP, but also an annoying adolescent atheist. After actually giving it some thought, I realized I was contextualizing the concept all wrong. Just because most people seem to contextualize God as a Santa Claus figure (bearded man who lives above us and judges our conduct, with fitting consequences) didn’t mean I had to accept that context.

There have been many very intelligent people across history who had many interesting things to say about deity. Few of them were using the Santa Claus model.

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Not Op but atheist who accepts that some people would actually be unhappy without religion.

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Honestly sometimes I wish I could brainwash myself that effectively.

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Same. At some point I became friends with pretty religious people who were also some of the most intelligent and nice people I had met. My beliefs that religious people are just dumb people who cannot understand the complexity of the real world kinda fell apart then.

I returned back to my pre-teen opinion, still an atheist but with compassion for other people’s beliefs. No need to constantly force my opinion into it or needlessly be a dick because we disagree. I’ve had many interesting discussions since then with very religious people. I still don’t fully get it, and to me it still reeks of indoctrination, but I’ve accepted that it’s fine to disagree.

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oh lol. been there done that. finally learnt it’s never worth your time to try and change someone’s beliefs.

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