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Ok boomer

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Hmm

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if this was a boomer post, it would be “Raider” 😄

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spiderman pointing at spiderman meme

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Lots of ‘pale’ downvotes. LOL!

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This meme is just perpetuating two harmful ideas:

  1. Reinforcing the expectation that black men have huge dongers

  2. That donger size matters and is a measure of self worth

You’ll notice that whilst point 2 effects all men, point 1 is more harmful to black men, as they hold their body to a higher unrealistic standard. Plus it’s part of the creepy fetishization of “exotic” people.

Tying people disliking these concepts to them being “pale” is just kinda weird, dismissive, and frankly plain racist.

I’m not personally offended by the post, and haven’t downvoted it, I just hate seeing the closed minded and unempathetic mindset that your comment demonstrates

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I fully agree (maybe with a nitpick re: “matter” from #2 just to leave room for everyone’s preference) but honestly I still have soft spot for duck jokes as an old tradition of lowbrow humor, especially the euphemistic/wordplay kind lol

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Totally, I don’t want to get into the nuances of penis size preferences, as the vast majority of people are happy with any donger (barring medical conditions), but of course, as you’ve said, there are outliers.

It just upsets me to watch men obsess about penis size, so I probably came across too strongly, sorry about that 😅

I also have no problem with humour, I try to avoid it as I see it as body shaming, but I’m not gonna be a party pooper

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Black is always bigger and longer…

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Not always. On average they probably are but averages only apply to groups, not individuals. The variation in size is bigger within the group that between them.

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I can’t argue against that

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Yeah, no one wants to eat that much white chocolate!

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