This may sound dumb for some of you but I just can’t play online, or at least I can’t play anything with chat or a very social aspect. That’s why I only play tekken on my xbox since that doesn’t require socialisation but I have so many games and I feel half of them are worthless now that I finished the campaigns because I don’t play them online.

People said “use discord” but that shit is so counter intuitive to use isn’t like reddit, that just find a sub and connect. I don’t like that you need invitations and that every game is subs inside subs and diverse chats… is too much.

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I agree, basically this. Although I also agree that some discord servers are overwhelming and badly structured / too many channels for no reason.

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I love hearing a boop and scrolling through 50 channels to see which one was posted in.

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Try Guild Wars 2.

You can play basically the entire game solo if you want. It would take you years to play all the solo material. They have mass battles to take down huge bosses. You can literally join without talking to anyone. As long as you cause at least 1 hit point of damage you get the chest at the end of the battle.

You don’t have to do those mass battles (meta events) if you don’t want to.

My guild has a discord server but no one is required to use it. You can use the in game text chat if you want. If you want you literally don’t even have to talk to anyone.

There are multi players areas, but I just spoke to someone who played for 9 years only doing player vs enemy. He just started player vs player.

If at some point you want to use discord someone will help you, but again no requirement.

Just to get the mount called skyscale (if you wanted to go nuts could be done in a week) I’ve been working on it for a couple months now. Like I said there is a TON to do in that game.

Game is pc only it’s about eleven years old.

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I don’t play on pc

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Change that.

You can get a Steam Deck refurbished for very very little money.

Edit: keep an eye out on this page for them to come back into stock, or check out Valve’s partner store, GameStop.

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I can’t afford more stuff. Makes no sense buying more gaming stuff when majority of my stuff is on xbox and my switch

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I don’t bother communicating. I just play silently and usually mute the chat if it is toxic. Even games like overwatch worked out ok playing without communicating.

The only time I had a decent experience playing with strangers was when I found specific gaming subs or Discord communities (e.g. casual gaming, gaming dads, etc) and played in a Discord voice channel. This was actually a really good experience in games like Street fighter or Apex legends. I could do dumb shit in game and they’d be completely chill and say “it happens” and carry on to the next game. Haven’t done this for the last couple of years though.

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Dude I fucking love Overwatch with no talking.

What I really want is to be part of a team of gamers who plays stuff as a team, silently.

I want to play with the same team so we can get really good at working together, but it want it to be all unspoken.

Would you like to do that with me?

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Dude, I’d love to get a group going for this and make it happen; but honestly I don’t play Overwatch anymore and it’s difficult to make time for multiplayer games anymore with kids and busy work. I only get a chance to play a bit of Street fighter 6 and some quick single player games.

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I would’ve loved that back when I was playing a lot more

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There are thousands and thousands of discord servers you can join without any invite. Try searching disboard.org to find a server for your game, or check YouTubers descriptions, many have one you can join. You’re not the only person I’ve heard complain about discord being difficult to learn. It does get easy, especially if you can find someone to help you join a voice chat or something.

Depending on the game you might have built in chat. I have made friends with random people I gamed with, and we continued for years.

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I tried discord, everyone types like a fucking 12 year old… instant turn off

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I hate discord as much as the next lemming, but it’s meant to be a quick chat style service, so lack of proper spelling and punctuation doesn’t bother me like it does on most other social media. As long as the information you get from others is correct, who cares about the spelling tbh.

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It doesnt sound dumb. Maybe its just not for you.

I play minetest online and some folks I chat with, some I dont. Its a private server so peeps dont bother others.

Big chat servers like on discord bore me because its mostly just trashtalk. Either lemmy or matrix, both are fine.

Hit me up if you wanna discuss it. Have a good one.

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