So it all started in 2020 when I moved to other house because he insulted and beat me up, now he comes to that new house which isn’t far away and keeps doing the same thing, he beat me up today because I didn’t want to give him my phone. When I tell it to my mother she says we’re both bad and she will sell the house, please someone help me I don’t know what to do

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Need more details, but it does seem bad.

  • What do you mean by beat you up?
  • how old are you both?
  • what “other house” did you move to and who lives in that house?
  • who owns the house?
  • Why does he saying he’s doing this?
  • What country and state are you in?

without all these details, you probably shouldn’t take any advice here as there’s a lot of incomplete information.

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Please go to the police today. You need help. Your mother is unable or unwilling to protect you. Maybe an older relative can take you in? Wishing you the best.

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Probably be better off talking to a teacher once school starts. They are mandatory reporters if abuse is happening. Also there are tools at the school like counselors and potentially support groups that police probably won’t have.

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18 points

Good idea, but this kid needs help NOW.

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27 points

How old is your brother? How old are you? This sounds like a troll post showing the overreaction of an online audience to recommend the most extreme response because some vital details are missing.

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I have to agree. I don’t expect many people under 18 on Lemmy, but I might be wrong. For this reason, I will wait to see how the thread develops.

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21 points

What country do you live in?

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Yeah that can’t continue. You need to let someone know how bad it’s gotten and that your mother won’t help you; a teacher you trust, etc. Next time, before it escalates very far if possible, call the police.

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Yes, teachers are mandated reporters. They will be able to get the ball rolling.

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