Like, why do you care so much if she’s sleeping with a new guy after just divorcing or her coming out or that rich family buying a new mansion? How does that affect your life?

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As your perception sounds quite negative I’ll try to change your view!

Instead of looking down on people fanatifally following a “celebrity”, take pity on them:

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parasocial_interaction

In short: their brain chemistry tricks them into thinking that they are following a friend and have the emotional reactions and interests as we’d hope our real friends do.

I find it really sad to be honest.

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I don’t really understand it, but I think you can apply your argument to anything. Why watch Game of Thrones, how does that affect your life? Why browse Lemmy, how does that affect your life? Why play video games, how does that affect your life? Why watch sports, how does it affect your life?

The answer is probably something like “because I enjoy it”, and the answer for the gossipers is probably the same. So who am I to judge.

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My hobbies could beat up your hobbies

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My hobbies could asphyxiate or poison your hobbies.

(I just started my distillation process today to recover and purifify isopropyl alcohol from my 3D resin prints, if you were curious.)

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Actually, your hobby could cure my hobby (resin printing).

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Nice one

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From an evolutionary standpoint it’s important to know what’s going on with people close to you. Who are people close to you? Why, obviously people who you’re familiar with - those whose faces you recognise and whose names you know.

So yeah, it’s a bug in how we’re coded.

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I think people have a tendency to use evolutionary psychology as a crutch in explaining human behaviour. Like they suggest it can explain everything when it’s only one factor of many.

However in this specific case your theory makes a lot of sense to me.

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You’re talking about at least millions of people making billions of decisions. It’s always going to have multiple factors. But evolution is almost always directly relevant, because it shaped our brain to the patterns it follows.

In this example, there are also plenty of external factors. The internet makes it possible to follow the behavior of celebrities. The celebrities have significant marketing teams actively trying to grab your interest (plus whatever businesses they’re famous in relation to trying to piggy back). The fact that you don’t have to spend 18 hours a day tracking prey just in case you manage to kill it. The fact that we’re hugely biased to be interested in more attractive people, to find people we’re exposed to more (especially in more glamorous lights) more attractive and most celebrities are also extremely attractive with professional teams to handle their appearance. The list always goes on.

But evolution is pretty much always a key lens to why we are what we are, because it actually is the why to almost all the low level behaviors that add up to big picture specific modern ones.

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People like drama and celebs are like casual acquaintances that everyone knows.

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Honestly, that’s pretty close to my reason. It’s more like “I love hot tea, and celebrities are a guilt-free source of it,” though.

It’s kind of a mutually beneficial relationship, in a way. Many celebrities (not all, the ones that don’t aren’t ones I enjoy hearing about because it feels to much like invading someone’s privacy) thrive on having their names constantly in the tables, and I get enjoyment from the schadenfreude. Kinda like pro wrestling, maybe?

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This is probably the best way I’ve heard it explained, ever

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Can I say something controversial?

Celebrity gossip has exactly the same appeal as Shipping and fan-theories, just for people who are more interested in reality than some TV-show.

So just let people enjoy things.

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I have never thought of it like that before, but it makes SO much sense.

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They can enjoy whatever they want, I still think they’re goofy.

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For sure… but those 2 groups are both equally goofy.

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Imagine if they were left alone in a room <3

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