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Everybody’s already mentioned the important things, but to be the more superficial one: people with no sense of style. People who just throw on something randomly and don’t give it a single thought. I get being comfortable, but you can be stylish and comfortable. You are not that when you wear knee-long jeans shorts and an unwashed tee, in my opinion.

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I’m your total opposite. Requiring style in others is a huge red flag. If you care about more about the clothes of a person than about the person, I don’t want to know you.

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Fair enough. Personally, I prefer personality over appearance. But I also think it’s a visual turnoff to see no effort, also because the way a person dresses is usually the first thing most people notice. I do, anyway.

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it’s a visual turnoff to see no effort

Life is short and I choose my mind’s content; I don’t care about clothing except for modesty, minimal work convention or warmth.

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But style is also part of a person’s personality no? I say this as someone who slaps on clothes on themselves more often than not.

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But style is also part of a person’s personality no?

Yes, if you accept “no style” (not caring about clothes at all) as a kind of style.

Demanding a non-null style regarding appearance is unacceptable to me.

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Right with ya. I just crawled in out the woods, from a storm. Got showered, put on nice clothes and cologne to greet my wife coming home from work. Know why? Because I want to look good for my partner. And she does the same for me.

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I do not understand the dislikes. Your response is quite polite.

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I’ll wear decent jeans if it’s something I care about/ can’t wear shorts too. But colours that fit my skin just don’t make sense to me. I can’t understand it, it’s not intuitive.

I suppose we’re not going to be friends

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fat

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Being a gun owner or enthusiast, if you don’t need to hunt to survive.

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My interests are more about the actual engineering involved, like it’s crazy how we can throw a piece of metal kilometres away to within a metre. And there’s something satisfying about how they fit together. But yeah I wouldn’t trust anyone with guns.

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most gun enthusiasts are straight-out idiots, if not fascists/authoritarians. you can fit nice people within this hobby inside a samba bus.

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Eating others. Only gunna be dating vegans.

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Sex isn’t vegan

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Hmm. Sex with a non-human animal wouldn’t be, at least.

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Drinks/imbibes beyond group vibes.

Man, I have a couple friends that have this exact problem and it’s tiresome…

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drinks/imbibes beyond group vibes.

How about drinking while cooking? Yk, having wine while cooking steak au jus or something.

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Hm, yeah that’s more than reasonable.

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