I don’t know how to explain this but now that my house is “done”, my wedding is over I am just bored.

Before that I was in stress and always wanted to give up. But now I am staring at a wall with coffee in my hand and playing video games waiting for the next vacation somewhere.

Is this normal?

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Post project letdown…look for ways to help others is how I reboot.

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Wow that is a thing. Thanks!

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And now that I’ve helped others here…my post project letdown is now over. Tyvm🙏

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Great advice right here.

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Embrace the boulder of Sisyphus, pick up the one hobby that will take decades to make any significant accomplishment.

Paint Warhammer minis.

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Wow I remember painting my Zombicide Minis lol.

Lol.

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Indie game development in my experience.

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Are you completely financially secure? If not work on that. If you are, find something to volunteer for and give back to society, help your local community prosper.

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Yeah I could always use more money but I am secure enough to pay my debt (house) regulary and save money and go on vacations.

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A house isn’t ever truly done though, right? Something will eventually come up that needs fixing or maintenance. So enjoy the temporary boredom while it lasts.

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I find you always need a target in life (or a few to juggle)

Pick something to improve about yourself.

Or pick up a new hobby.

Or pick up a new sport and try to get fitter

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