Must’ve been a frightening experience

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I always use the little door knocker thingy

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I feel like I slept through the point where everyone decided to stop answering calls, answering doors and generally chose to turn to a life of hermitage. It would have been nice to get an email or something so I at least would have known.

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Oh look at Mr show-off here with his friends

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XD

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shit when i had friends they didnt knock they just came right in.

back in the before time. the long long ago

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Some friends would stay for days. Friends would just roll up at a time we agreed, too. If they didn’t show, we wouldn’t know why unless we called their house.

The time without cell phones on our person was magical. For kids especially.

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I had a best friend that used to sleep over all the time and if he couldn’t I slept over at his house. We went to the same school but lived two hours apart. Everyone thought we were a gay couple. Good times.

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hi Bert!

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You can still experience this. I’ve had this just in the past few weeks in a major city. Trust people again.

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I’ve heard this about some countries/areas. I know this was common in parts of canada f.ex.

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Texts/calls don’t set the dogs off, which is why I don’t ring the doorbell/knock

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coming in will still set the dogs off so what’s the difference

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24 points

The dogs are the doorbell!

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I used to sneak up to one friends house and quietly scratch the door. Their dogs at the time used to love it. If I tried now the new dogs would eat me, door & all.

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Nice to warn the dogs you’re about to waltz in though

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as if pets won’t know you’re on your way when you’re 5 blocks away

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Hey man, Dogs can get arrival notifications when they start pitching in for rent

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But if no-one knocks or ring the bell then the dogs won’t be conditioned to start barking.

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What kind of conditioning do dogs get to perceive the doorbell as a threat anyway?

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Seems like a dog should be able to handle things like doorbells and people. These are somewhat common things.

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Bingo!

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