That would be such a turn off for me. Have way too many bad experiences with insecure partners
It’s literally a joke. You are clearly not the target audience. I think it’s funny, and any girl dropping that on me while we’re talking would be a good choice lol. If you can’t even see this as the joke it is, you must be fun at parties.
Sorry I wasn’t aware that the fun police would be here to gatekeep the comments lmao. I’m just making conversation, sharing my experiences. It’s not that serious.
I know it’s a joke, it just reminded me of the people I knew who would do such things irl and I cringed because of how bad partners they were.
You are using a silly, stupid joke to completely label someone you know nothing about. This isn’t gatekeeping its just an opinion on your opinion. That’s all I’m saying on the matter.
This looks insecure because he “saves” but well its just a joke and you actually need to be very secure to risk ruining your question with this joke if she doesn’t get it. He isn’t saving, he is risking more for a joke. This man is very secure.
In my experience that’s not how it works. Insecure partners are often very open about how insecure they are
