“And” doesn’t mean causality.

Archimedes designed siege devices and died at Siracuse. Him designing siege devices is not the reason for him dying.

I agree that nobody owes me respect (I actually like it, because it removes the balancing part) and I’d not want respect from you. The latter is not a consequence of the former.

Also “I’d not want respect from you” in natural languages can mean “I want no respect from you” or literal meaning, I meant the latter.