Why western people seldom use "please"?

posted 5 months ago

Hello,

First of all I don’t really get the actual meaning of “please”. I understand it as it used to make a polite request. However I have rarely seen any westerner saying “please” on either Lemmy, Mastodon or IRC. where I live using “please” (मेहरबानी) is used often.

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Melllvar@startrek.website

26 points

5 months ago

“Please” is short for “if it pleases you” or “if you please”. It’s used to turn a command into a request. It’s probably not used on Lemmy, etc. because we’re not requesting things of each other a lot.

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communism@lemmy.ml

12 points

5 months ago

It’s probably not used on Lemmy, etc. because we’re not requesting things of each other a lot.

Speak for yourself please. Make me a sandwich please

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