Description: A meme in two pictures and two text boxes.
The upper image shows an anime-style character, joyous and smiling, surrounded by twinkling stars. The text next to them says: âYou realize youâre trans.â
The lower image shows the same character, staring in despair, surrounded by darkness. The text next to them says: âYou realize youâre trans.â
I realized I am not trans but incredibly envious of hot women and their ability to have sex whenever they like. WHENEVER they like. That sometimes makes me dream of being a woman, having this privilege to act all decent but blow and fu** as often as I please.
But then I realize that as an ugly middle aged fuck, my biggest fantasy always was being sexually attractive (at least a little bit), so I keep searching the web for porn that fuels this fantasy, quietly weeping inside and pathetically wanking my way to my grave.
I realized I am not trans but incredibly envious of hot women and their ability to have sex whenever they like. WHENEVER they like.
What?
An attractive woman can have sex basically whenever she wants. The issue is that youâll be having sex with an unattractive and/or disrespectful partner.
If being a woman is dying of thirst on a raft in the ocean, this guy is stuck in the desert and wants to see the ocean. Both people are dying of thirst even though they are in different places.
An attractive woman can have sex basically whenever she wants.
I definitely know more attractive women who have given up on relationships because of abuse than I do any women who says that they have sex âwhenever they wantâ. But maybe they donât talk to me about it because Iâm asexual, and I am not interested.
Pick any or all from this list that may help:
- Lose weight and adopt a fitness routine.
- Find clothing that fits, is in style, and looks like you dress with a bit of effort. Avoid graphic t-shirts and jeans paired together. Clothing shouldnât be loose, and should fit your body well.
- Groom yourself. Shave your face, sculpt your beard. Learn light makeup. Shower, brush your teeth, and perhaps see a dentist; if your mouth smells like decay, no oneâs gonna kiss you.
- Expend effort on what you look like.
- Change mindset and behavioral patterns. Be presentable, well-dressed, and clean, and donât hunt for women; male-attracted women will come around sometimes.
It really is about taking care of yourself. No one would want a guy who doesnât take care of himself. For that matter, when women exhibit similar, theyâre ignored and rejected as well.
You got this.
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