How do men suffer under patriarchy?

Queer and gender nonconforming men get an immense amount of abuse due to patriarchy. Even gender conforming straight boys and men do if they show sensitivity in any real capacity. The abuse of boys and young men for the sake of making them “man up” is hardly an unusual in many areas.

Do u really want to be the one blaming 75% of suicides on men not being allowed to beat their wives?

What? This has nothing to do with the comment you replied to.

Sounds like ur calling all cis men evil bad people.

No, this is a ridiculous conclusion you drew from someone saying patriarchy hurts everyone.