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Men are also different from women. Not just physically but mentally. Part of the problem the writer had was not understanding how male friendships work and expecting a mirror of female friendships. Certainly it can be lonelier as a man but in some ways it’s just the way we are.

You ain’t never had a friend.

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in some ways it’s just the way we are.

Is it? What makes you think that our loneliness is inherent to us? How is it inherent to us?

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I’m just saying that men in general have a much easier time being alone. I don’t think we should always be alone, but more men than women have the ability to be solitary and happy at the same time.

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What if being solitary and happy has zero foundation in being a “man” but comes about from being rejected by society as the man one is?

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