Words hurt exactly as much as you care what whoever said them thinks of you. This leaves u with 2 cases.
Case 1: your friend whoes opinion u value is saying something hurtful, ask em to stop if they dont u dont have to be there friend or value their opinion.
Case 2: its some rando whoes opinion you dont value. The only reason u would care what they think is if your insecure.
So what is it? Words dont hurt? Your friends arnt actually ur friends? Or are u simply insecure?
You’re forgetting about words that come from society as a whole. Those are a hell of a lot harder to disregard than ones made by an individual.
Society is made up of individuals. What difference does the number of people make 0 fucks times any things is still 0 fucks.
You should work on your spelling and grammar before acting like an authority.
Never claimed to be an authority. And being a grammar Nazi isnt an argument based in logic, its sidestepping any substance for the sole purpise of being a right old cunt.