couldn’t have said it better myself, but for posterity, they of course sent a report:
Reason: Sanctimonious bullshit, unsolicited advice and multi instance harassment
I initially had some sympathy for their position, but the downvote whining and report abuse really has done them no favors. it’s time for them to find a different instance to pollute.
for me the wat was triggered by “unsolicited advice”; if it was my reply that was reported, i wasn’t giving advice, i was setting boundaries.