As requested, a thread for general snarking that may not need its own post.
Exactly, Sarah is not marginalized. I call bs on some of the comments including “this makes me not want to have kids”. Her body is not a result of her children. Her body is her body. The children comment could be coming from Sarah. Sarah is a medium height, somewhat attractive white women from the burbs. She grew up going to Disney world every year and was raised by two parents that love her. She owned a home at 20 and has never faced any major hardship in her life. She earns money by shoving her insecurities on others. Why doesn’t she be honest and talk about things that are interesting… her affair, what it’s like to be a compulsive liar, how she regrets having children, what it’s like to be the bread winner, how does it feel to have her husband around all day, does she feel guilty for using her mother as a daycare, waas it helpful when Mommy and Daddy bought her house back for her???
I’m interested in all the topics you suggested l. I want to know if it’s exhausting being a compulsive liar and I want to know if she just lies to her online followers because she’s running a con or does she lie to people irl. I want to know how it felt when she discovered how the pregnancies began and Shane decided to get a vasectomy. Did he choose this route because he doesn’t trust you not to have another child once L is old enough to say no to being on IG?
To be frank, if she spent more time focused on :
- Worrying about the bodies and mental health of women in Sudan, Ukraine, DRC and Palestine ,
- The body autonomy of women and trans kids being threatened around the world,
- Stopping partnerships with problematic brands that are anti body autonomy and misogynistic
- Recognizing her extreme privilege to have tattooed eyebrows, fake long blonde hair and procedures as upkeep (on top of two homes, $$$, white privilege) ,
Then maybe she’d stop caring about her vessel! Almost ALL of my friends bodies (who have had kids or not) look exactly like this at 40+. We are NOT out here focusing on our bodies, but we are actively calling out people like her who give us 40+ crowd a bad rep of being vapid consumers stuck in egotistical high school mentality. Also, my friends who work out, compete and train for things have super kickass physical bodies but they are OLDER! Nobody looks the same as they age. And maybe I just have a better family or friends who don’t talk about our bodies, and she’s stuck with an unsupportive spouse, family and friends who let her make this her “thing” but they really do need to tell her she’s fine, it’s a body, it’s nothing worth singling out, and that she could be more and know her worth without a focus on her vessel.
